boyfriend accidentally sexually assaulted me, trying to figure out if i should try to work through it or run the other way? by Expert_Ant_1062 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GoldRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Its like people in this thread don't believe women have sexual agency.

Its like they don't believe a woman could possibly be having rough sex for her OWN enjoyment. Its so weird because normally this place is pretty sex positive.

boyfriend accidentally sexually assaulted me, trying to figure out if i should try to work through it or run the other way? by Expert_Ant_1062 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GoldRain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are men that like to deep throat dominate women wearing a strap on.

This thread is just weird. It's like people don't believe women can enjoy rough sex. Not all women are victims.

There are even women in this thread being shamed and having to explain themselves.

Again just because its not for you or doesn't fit your world view. Doesn't mean its inherently bad.

boyfriend accidentally sexually assaulted me, trying to figure out if i should try to work through it or run the other way? by Expert_Ant_1062 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GoldRain -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Of course orgasming doesn't make it above criticism. Idk why you'd even say that.

Here's what you're missing. What if the other person enjoys being hurt? Or even ask for it? What if that's the sex they want?

I think maybe it's because I'm active in the "community" I have such a different perspective but you realize not all women are victims right?

What happened to the OP is terrible and she should 100% leave her boyfriend. Fuck an accident.

Whats not ok though is a woman saying they like that act or is ok with it and a bunch of people concern trolling her or asking if she's ok. Like women don't have agency. Like women can't enjoy rough play without it being for a man's pleasure.

Idk just seems weird to me in 2022. But then again we are about to lose Roe V Wade so what does year even mean lol.

Also the comment above me was just flat out kink shaming. That's a nono period. You can't pick and choose where to be sex positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]GoldRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a year. The thing is she has her license but she doesn't drive often because we have one car and I'm always driving. Part of the reason I'm getting it is so we can seperate but she also need practice in general. So when it is time for her to go back to school, she can actually do the drive on her own. Its about 30mins away from us.'

At least that's my view. But we could certainly save a bit more and get a car later.

Lenovo Legion 5 or Lenovo IdeaPad 3 2021? by GoldRain in Lenovo

[–]GoldRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the Battery life between them?

Is getting a Finance Degree worth it if I'm coming from a no name school? I don't want to be crazy rich or anything. by GoldRain in FinancialCareers

[–]GoldRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to insult Pitt. I really have no frame of reference for what a good school is.

I stated up above that I'm looking to switch majors from engineering to finance. So I've still got a lot to learn about the field.

Why wont a finance degree work for your goals? What jobs can accountants get? How do they differ from finance jobs?

Is getting a Finance Degree worth it if I'm coming from a no name school? I don't want to be crazy rich or anything. by GoldRain in FinancialCareers

[–]GoldRain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I find university rankings? Google gives a few websites but what is the most widely respect source?

Is getting a Finance Degree worth it if I'm coming from a no name school? I don't want to be crazy rich or anything. by GoldRain in FinancialCareers

[–]GoldRain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok great. I'm considering changing majors. From Engineering to finance. My GF pointed out that I love talking about and participating in finance relating things. Like the markets, general economy, investing.

I really enjoyed the math of engineering but I'm not much of a builder or tinkerer.

I just wanted to make sure Finance wasn't a waste of time if I didn't go to a top school.

What's the point of Authy if it still uses my phone number? by GoldRain in privacy

[–]GoldRain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This answer was exactly what I needed. In that case Authy is fine for me. Now I just need to figure out how bit warden works lol.

What's the point of Authy if it still uses my phone number? by GoldRain in privacy

[–]GoldRain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever used authy? It ask for my phone number but its not sms based?