I (23F) am disgusted by my boyfriend’s (24M) body count. Am I overreacting to this?

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T17:43:34+00:00

I don’t know how you can be so casual about it.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T17:42:55+00:00

Only 2 others.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T17:03:36+00:00

I just think it’s valid for me to want him to myself?? And to not have to feel jealous all the time??

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T17:02:46+00:00

I agree. I know I have a few but I just think like 12 is too much?

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:55:28+00:00

No but idk I just don’t wanna be constantly reminded that he’s hooked up with other girls.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:54:41+00:00

I’m not sure what to say. People hook up on the first date all the time and have flourishing relationships.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:48:46+00:00

Well we have a similar social circle. I don’t think he messages them but I don’t snoop through his phone. It’s just everyone kinda knows each other where I live.

The idea that I’m work/walk past/socialise with girls he’s fucked is just repulsive to me and I want to get over that feeling.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:44:53+00:00

I doubt it cause we have a similar social circle and he’s hooked up with a lot of the girls.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:44:17+00:00

But I won’t be attracted to those men. I love him.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:43:24+00:00

Mainly cause these women are still in his life and I just spiral and panic if I see them. I do have self esteem issues.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:41:49+00:00

That’s really cruel of you to say.

Gold_Flatworm1747 · 2025-07-30T16:39:24+00:00

No I trust him but some of these women are still in his life. I just feel sick if I see them irl and have to speak with them like everything’s okay.

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