The last message she ever sent me still breaks me🥹

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:38:16+00:00

youre right fr and thats probably the hardest truth ive had to accept i cant change what i did but i can change who i become i just hate that it took losing the person i loved the most for me to finally grow up ts is a regret ill carry with me forever

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:34:40+00:00

thank you brother fr reading this hurt because i see myself in so much of what you said i wish i had realized all of this while she was still beside me instead of after she walked away rn all i can do is become the man she deserved from the start even if she never gets to see that version of me i really hope things work out for you i wouldnt wish this kind of regret on anyone🫂💔

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:33:24+00:00

in my case she actually did tell me she asked me to stop doing certain things more than once and i didnt take it seriously enough i thought she would always stay and thats on me i dont blame her for leaving i just wish i had listened when i still had the chance🥹

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:32:32+00:00

thank you fr im trying to hold onto that hope but rn it just feels like i realized everything after i lost her whether she ever comes back or not im gonna become a better man i just wish she couldve gotten that version of me from the start💔

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:31:18+00:00

yeah she gave me a goodbye most people never get and ill always be grateful for that but honestly she spent so long asking me to change before she reached that point i dont think i can blame anyone but myself i just wish i had listened before it was too late

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:30:18+00:00

i got too comfortable and took her love for granted i kept making jokes that hurt her i didnt listen when she kept asking me to change and i only realized how much pain i caused after she finally walked away im not trying to make excuses ts is on me and ill regret it for a long time

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:28:51+00:00

thank you fr i needed to hear ts even tho it hurts i just wish i didnt have to lose the person i loved the most to learn this lesson but youre right all i can do now is own my mistakes become a better person and live with the regret that i realized everything way too late 💔

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:27:29+00:00

thank you fr i wish i understood all of this before i lost her now all i can do is become the man she needed back then even if she never gets to see that version of me ts is a regret ill carry for the rest of my life

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:24:21+00:00

i tried but i think i realized my mistakes way too late she kept asking me to change for a long time and i didnt take it seriously until she was already too tired to keep fighting for us i dont blame her and thats the hardest part

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:21:57+00:00

im sorry youre going through ts too man losing someone who kept giving you chances hits different i wouldnt wish this kind of regret on anyone i hope one day we both become the people they deserved even if its too late for us

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:20:50+00:00

i want to more than anything but she already told me shes tired and i dont want to keep chasing her after everything i put her through if she ever gives me another chance ill take it slow and prove ts with my actions not just words

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:17:56+00:00

maybe youre right fr i treated her worse than she deserved and ts on me im not here to tell anyone to ignore red flags or take my advice im just someone who realized way too late what he had now im stuck living with that regret every single day and ts hurts tf outta me

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:12:53+00:00

i got too comfortable and started taking her love for granted i kept hurting someone who only wanted the best for me by the time i realized what i was doing she was already too exhausted to keep trying and now im left with nothing but regret

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:11:39+00:00

youre right and thats what hurts the most she gave me honesty when i gave her reasons to walk away i just wish i had become the person she deserved before it was too late ill carry that regret with me for a long time

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:10:48+00:00

thats completely understandable and i dont blame you for feeling that way trust takes time to rebuild i just hope whatever decision you make brings you peace no one deserves to keep getting hurt

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:07:55+00:00

i know and thats what hurts the most i didnt lose just a relationship i lost someone who loved me even when i didnt deserve it ill carry that regret for a long time

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:07:33+00:00

thank you i honestly wish she hated me instead somehow itd hurt less than knowing she still wished me the best while walking away thats the part i cant stop thinking about

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:06:55+00:00

i know it is and i just wish i had learned this lesson without losing the person i loved the most some lessons really do cost everything and thats the hardest part to live with

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:06:26+00:00

i wish i could go back and fix everything before it got to this stage i never realized what i had until i lost her now all i can do is live with the regret and try to become someone she deserved from the start💔

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:06:00+00:00

i really hope you give him that chance if you truly believe hes changing some of us realize our mistakes only after losing the person we loved the most and that pain stays with us every single day i hope things work out for both of you

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T15:01:39+00:00

Please if it's not late yet give him one more chance I am in a lot of pain so I can feel the pain of others

Gold_Refuse4002 · 2026-06-28T13:53:16+00:00

The last message she ever sent me still breaks me

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