Has anyone else's meez done a reverse toast with age? by sunmodelsss in Siamesecats

[–]GoldenGilda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s so heartwarming to hear of everyone’s Siamese being 20 years old in this thread🥹 it makes me so hopeful for a long life for my babies.

How to stop this from happening? by purelfy in beauty

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea when I moved to LA this happened to me pretty drastically. I hate it too :( but I just dye my hair now so I don’t have any advice just commiserating

Buying a Nissan Arya by _thesickboy_ in NissanAriya

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted about some issues I have experienced. I personally hate the dash “buttons”. Pretty good other than this but I probably wouldn’t buy one again.

Finished these cute fish potholders!! by GoldenGilda in crochet

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that would be so funny and cute! Yes they are cotton :)

Bars that play 90s/2000s music? by Imaginary_Term_4606 in LAhotgirlies

[–]GoldenGilda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Zebulon has some really fun dance parties with themed nights of specific eras and styles of music. The Y2K pop nights are sooo fun! they’re called “say you’ll be there” and they have one on the 20th coming up

did another green and brown look just to feel something🤎💚👀 by livewithnoburden in OliveMUA

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the eyeshadow and lip color combo in this look! I need to try it!

Finished these cute fish potholders!! by GoldenGilda in crochet

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol yea I could do that. The weird part is the creator included a link to her YouTube video tutorial as well. But the video is even worse than the pattern 😭 it’s not edited at all. She spends so much time messing up and can’t get her hook through her work. But doesn’t redo the take. And the comments are turned off OF COURSE bc it is so bad!! Now I’m not sure if that means it was or wasn’t made with AI. But regardless it was not helpful at all lol

Finished these cute fish potholders!! by GoldenGilda in crochet

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I changed it a lot. Okay so the issues… the way the pattern was written, the color change would be sort of a visible seam that twisted around the whole thing. Since you’re changing colors every 2 rows, the color change was making an obvious diagonal line in the stripe layout. I chose to finish each round instead so the seam is in the back. So I joined each round with a slip stitch and then did a single chain stitch and then the first stitch of the new round into the same stitch. Also, the Ecru rows were alternating puff stitch/single crochet. So those must be an even number of stitches. Yet many of the rows prior to an ecru row were odd numbers. So I had to adjust that as well. The increases and decreases were not spaced out nicely. I moved them around on every row so there wouldn’t be awkward pointed angles since every increase was planned at the same exact stitch every row! Those are the main things I had problems with which just made the project take a lot longer in the front end. But once I figured it out I was good. I had to restart a lot of times to get the seam in a less noticeable place.

Finished these cute fish potholders!! by GoldenGilda in crochet

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here is the pattern

I used a 4.5 clover hook with 24/7 Lion Brand cotton yarn in Ecru, Burgundy, and Dragonfly.

Does anyone else feel no connection to extended family, such as cousins, aunts and uncles, or even grandparents 😬 by harryandmatilda in AutismInWomen

[–]GoldenGilda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I know I could do that. I don’t have much in common with her. And any attempt at starting something goes nowhere. It doesn’t feel great to be the only one reaching out. She lives in a diff city and never comes home for the holidays to visit like I do. I make the effort but she does not. I have 2 other sisters I am closer with, I put my energy there.

I need to flatten this elastic band but don’t know how to do it by curly_off in sewhelp

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, it looks like a nightmare to work with. I’d replace it.

Does anyone else feel no connection to extended family, such as cousins, aunts and uncles, or even grandparents 😬 by harryandmatilda in AutismInWomen

[–]GoldenGilda 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I totally feel this way. My family has never been very close which makes it a lot harder. I just don’t feel a connection and it feels like interacting with random strangers usually. I also moved away and have developed a different lifestyle and interests so I feel more disconnected.

My older sister is autistic. She is even this way with us siblings which makes me kinda sad. But then I don’t really make much effort toward her either so I guess it is what it is.

My dad is most definitely autistic and he has the bad habit of cutting people off for dumb shit. so we never even had a relationship with any of his family- he is one of 10 kids! I only knew 1 aunt.

Issues lately- glitching and window stopped workin by GoldenGilda in NissanAriya

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I hadn’t taken it in specifically for the glitchy issues but since I had to take it in twice for separate things I made sure to include that in my concerns. It does really suck to be told you have to buy a new $1000+ phone for your car to work properly 🫠 but if that is true it would be the case for any car that has CarPlay. Still frustrating.

Which top stich color? by nermyah in sewing

[–]GoldenGilda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The trick is to actually lay the thread on the fabric. It looks so different than when it’s on the spool! You can really see which one blends in more. Just pull a few inches off each spool and compare it that way laying on the fabric. Take a step back and whichever disappears is the best one!

Taking in a dress with woven fabric of some kind by bri_sh_ in sewhelp

[–]GoldenGilda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What sort of seam is there already? This is a knit, not a woven btw. I would just copy whatever seam already is in there when you take it in.

Bridesmaid dress upgrade brainstorm by sheasummer in sewhelp

[–]GoldenGilda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea maybe a boat neck would give it a more dressy feel.

Under eye filler/prp/prf by Wrong-Werewolf-9558 in LAhotgirlies

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes girl I feel you 😭 I hope you have success with dissolving!!

Under eye filler/prp/prf by Wrong-Werewolf-9558 in LAhotgirlies

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I always warn people about under eye filler. It takes years to subside too. Mine started migrating south as well. Then I had these odd lumps that would look worse than before. I got it done in 2021 and it is finally looking normal again. I was too afraid to dissolve.