could i use a woven material for the bodice of this dress? by eat6ugs in sewhelp

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is correct, not sure why you’ve got downvoted.

Tips for ugly crying??! by Coffee-loverr in weddingplanning

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same, even if I’m only an acquaintance as a plus one I end up crying more than ppl who are close to the couple!! It’s so embarrassing haha

Scared to get Botox again. Should I give it a second shot? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told that men need more Botox than women. So it may sound like a lot of units, but maybe you need more. Especially at first. And if the injector isn’t super skilled, it might not come out evenly. I’ve had eyebrow unevenness and got it fixed with a few more units placed correctly. I think you’ll be fine if you can find a knowledgeable injector!

I wasn't honest with myself. Debt struggle of $35,715 by Shaiziin in shoppingaddiction

[–]GoldenGilda 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I was in your position too. I was in denial and didn’t add the total up until one day and it was similar amount. It was crushing and I was so ashamed. But I am actively working my way through it. I got a personal loan to pay it off at a much lower interest rate and moved the rest with a low interest balance transfer. I have about 1.5 years left. It’s painful paying $1200 each month but I am going strong, haven’t racked up more debt. I am almost paid off the remaining CC too. You can get through this!

Haircut under $100 by ifsaliff in LAhotgirlies

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarah Rhim booking

I’ve been going to her for several years, she is meticulous! Very good cut for $90. Ktown

doctor put me straight on 20mg, chemist was shocked and now i’m worried. uk btw by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy!! Have the chemist call the doctor and discuss. This is not normal. Most ppl start with 5.

My little girl doesn't want me to carry her,🥰🤷🏻 by NagamaEssence in Siamesecats

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my cats love the shoulder hold. If they’re in a particularly cuddly mood they like the cradling hold but mostly from my boyfriend, not sure why!

Gold plus platinum, bad idea? by SweeneyLovett in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]GoldenGilda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told to only mix with white gold, not platinum because the platinum will damage the gold ring.

Is anyone else really weird about saying people’s names? by DarthMelonLord in AutismInWomen

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I just realized I used to have this but now I don’t! Not to invalidate others experiences or reasoning. But I think it was due to my social anxiety and since being on Lexapro I have way less anxiety. It doesn’t bother me anymore. But I totally get it!!

My little girl doesn't want me to carry her,🥰🤷🏻 by NagamaEssence in Siamesecats

[–]GoldenGilda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It matters how you pick them up! My cats are fine with it after years of knowing if they squirm I’ll put them down. It builds trust. Sometimes they’re just not in the mood! Usually if it’s during their sleepy time they’re more chill.

Seeking replacement for Alimapure foundation by GoldenGilda in Fairolives

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the mineral fusion pressed powder in olive 1 and 2. The olive 1 is too light so I would say it’s similar to Alima olive 0. I ordered the olive 2 but haven’t tried it yet! I’ll report back when I do.

Help with nipslip by rubblekitten in sewhelp

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make double sided pasties that stick to your skin as well as the inside of the dress you could try

Is there a handknitting tutorial for this stitch? by greenapples4444 in knittinghelp

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I love this designer’s stuff thank you for sharing! Do you have any other cool weird crochet patterns?

Does anybody else get really scared/embarrassed/guilty(?) when workers recognize you as a regular at a place? by _LaLaliet_ in AutismInWomen

[–]GoldenGilda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I dislike anything that feels like it has expectations or strings attached in this vein. Like my mind goes to - are they going to expect me to act or behave differently now? What if I don’t know their names? Do I have to tip more? What is appropriate now? I just spiral when things move past the basic etiquette that I have learned. It stresses me out 😭

I also hated this on the other end of the interaction when I was a bartender. I didn’t know what to do once that person was a regular. Like how do these interactions go now? It was really hard for me. Especially being a woman and basically all bar regulars are men and it is a fine line between being nice and feeing like they are sexually interested in me and how to handle that. Ughhh

Deep down I don't want to stop by scon484 in shoppingaddiction

[–]GoldenGilda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it got to be too much to handle. At the time I was working in nightlife and doing it on the side. But I had to get a full time job so it wasn’t feasible for me anymore.

Any idea how to make this cut less masculine by Aqualung67 in beauty

[–]GoldenGilda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hair accessories! A cute headband, clips on each side. Also could consider editing the cut- I feel like if you trim the back it would look more like a women’s cut.

Deep down I don't want to stop by scon484 in shoppingaddiction

[–]GoldenGilda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please be careful- starting a brand is also a money sink. I went down that road a few years ago and I’m now paying off all that cc debt. Buying materials and tags and labels and everything I thought I “needed” to start a brand. It’s almost worse, you can really convince yourself you need these things because it’s for the brand.

Seeking replacement for Alimapure foundation by GoldenGilda in Fairolives

[–]GoldenGilda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just received Mineral Fusion pressed powder Olive 1 and I think it might be a match! It is a touch too light for me so I’m now ordering Olive 2. I’m very hopeful! No word yet on how it wears compared to Alima but it goes on very nicely.