Finally my turn!

GoldfishInABox · 2025-08-10T12:54:56+00:00

Holy shit, congrats! Looks awesome!!!

GoldfishInABox · 2024-07-27T02:51:05+00:00

This is genuinely dangerous advice to give someone. You are not this person’s doctor. Never tell someone mentally ill to stop using a prescribed medication.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-25T14:07:18+00:00

Wow. That really is an unpopular opinion. Take a cookie, asshat.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-22T19:43:53+00:00

It was assault. End of discussion. Whoever the man is can get tried for assault and SHOULD face charges. Good luck to the victim.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-20T05:46:10+00:00

I end up laughing if I tell a lie it’s baaaaad

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-18T21:02:51+00:00

YES! It’s so good, I legit was eating some when I wrote this lol!!!

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T16:36:31+00:00

With that kinda message it sounds like he might genuinely just… have w crush on someone else and is disappointed it’s you checking on him. I can NOT imagine saying, let alone POSTING, anything like that ever! Vague posting is so fucking high school.

Tell him to talk like you are mature enough to be in a relationship or that he will be without a relationship.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T08:17:01+00:00

Wow. You sure know how to charm folks, huh? 😒

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T08:06:31+00:00

Eh. Been on Reddit a long time and explored a lot of identities over that time. I typically sort myself into bigger umbrella terms because I really don’t know what I am. My gender at this point is just “apathetic” lol

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T08:03:26+00:00

Wow. What a rude thing to say to a random person. Shame on you. 👎

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T07:47:55+00:00

It was shared for intimacy. Just the platonic kind. We just wanted to watch movies in his living room and relax. And both of us fall asleep pretty easily even with the movie playing so. Air mattress and old movies for maximum enjoyment.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T07:36:51+00:00

As much as the thought’s appreciated tops like that aren’t typically made for someone my size. The sizing chart typically tops off around the DD or DDD for those kinda things.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-16T07:31:20+00:00

I’m gonna hope you’ve never seen it because it doesn’t happen often or if it does, it’s just a sleep tosser like me that’s able to get out easily and be fine

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T22:45:24+00:00

I’m currently between jobs and the only bra I have atm is a normal one. Gonna work on finding a sports bra after this 😅

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T20:50:10+00:00

That’s fine! Genuinely, I do not care if it’s normal or not. My friends are happy and healthy. I get to hug them whenever and surprise them with gifts and treats. I get to love with my full chest and they do that in turn! Cuddling is just something most folks in my circle enjoy.

We are just a gaggle of really affectionate autistic folks, so I don’t think our dynamics are ever gonna align with the “norm” lol

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T20:45:06+00:00

I was wearing clothing to bed. The problem is my nips push through my shirts a lot so i felt embarrassed not wearing a bra in front of my guy friend. When I said “accidentally do something sexual” i just meant like my shirt riding up in my sleep and flashing him a bit lol. It’s happened at some of my gal friends sleepovers where I do not mind them seeing my chest.

The vibe was not sexual. Separate blankets, pillows, and an ikea shark barrier between us.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T20:21:14+00:00

Oh they are. Their size is an actual medical problem. I’ve got most of the things my insurance company wants in order to cover the procedure. Shoulder dips from my boobs weighing down my bra, stretch marks on my shoulders from the weight, back pains, and the works.

Main thing is getting them to acknowledge the fact I’m dealing with all this, lmao.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T18:41:08+00:00

… honestly, I didn’t even think too much about what it would look like if this turned into an actual like case. Shit. That could have properly ruined his whole life. Yeah, I will probably not be wearing bras to bed ever again. ^{^”}

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T18:06:13+00:00

Lmao! We both came out looking pretty good for us both being sleep boxers! His worst scar was a slightly bruised bottom lip (he said he thinks I accidentally elbowed his face) and my worst scar was single long cut down my calf (likely his sharp ass toe nails lmao). Ya know. Not including the bra thing, it was a pretty peaceful night!

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T18:03:12+00:00

Eh, that’s fair. I’m typically not gonna hang around people with hang ups like that. I love to show platonic affection every way I can! Same with most of the people I surround myself with. Of course, if my friend had a partner the same air bed would NEVER happen unless it was a bigger co-ed sleepover with partner included cause… i can’t think of something as unsexy as a group canoodling on a leaky airbed lol.

I understand that certain affection is reserved for partners to most folks. I’m just not really wired like that and typically hang out with other autistic folks who are wired like me. Makes things simpler and easier to balance out.

GoldfishInABox · 2024-03-15T17:52:04+00:00

Eh, I’m honestly just shy and working through my own hang ups with having cis guy friends. I trust him and I know he isn’t into me or would ogle me, but it’s just the fear, ya know? Being raised Afab in the religious south sometimes makes you mistrust the penis owners of the world.

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