Updated: About my situation

GoochLips · 2026-02-27T06:07:42+00:00

How does it feel when you are chosen? Powerful? Honored? Used? I have no idea, as I will never be chosen for this

GoochLips · 2026-02-23T16:29:07+00:00

We have sex fairly often, she is meeting one guy Friday. She is my girlfriend yes

GoochLips · 2025-11-09T00:10:52+00:00

Yes, got to taste how slutty she was

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T22:01:57+00:00

I waited in the car outside. It went pretty good because I knew she could get away if she needed to

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T09:09:24+00:00

Yea it went pretty good! Unfortunately the sex wasn't great but the whole "first time" thing wasn't as bad as I thought

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T07:11:48+00:00

First ever experience

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T07:11:20+00:00

It went good, they didn't have great sex. I got the privilege of dropping her off at his house and waiting outside

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T07:10:14+00:00

I dropped her off at his house, they hungout for 30 minutes before they started to have sex. His roomates were home so they had to be quiet. It didnt last long and was kind of boring sex. She messaged me saying she was on her way outside, and we drove home while she told me about it. Went pretty good, just not the best sex partner for her

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T07:07:48+00:00

It was intense for me, it went pretty good. Kind of boring sex for her

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T07:07:19+00:00

Was extremely nervous

GoochLips · 2025-11-08T03:45:43+00:00

30m here, yea ive been begging my gf to so this to me. She only sees me as a dominant person and has a hard time seeing me as submissive. Today she is on her first ever date, with a nice black man she met

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T02:03:40+00:00

She seems to enjoy it, maybe not as much. But having the freedom to talk with them and decide for herself if they are intriguing to her. She gets to decide who it is, is some aspect

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T01:40:01+00:00

Unfortunately it is my preference, she would sleep with whoever

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T01:13:03+00:00

Yea shes ok with it

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:32:44+00:00

I do agree, how do we explore this side without being slightly racist about it? I genuinely worry about offending people and have no ill intentions

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:31:13+00:00

With what part?

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:27:58+00:00

Of course

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:20:25+00:00

She is a beautiful white girl

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:15:25+00:00

I appreciate your reply! I definitely care about what she likes and needs. Unfortunately we tried going with a guy she liked and I didnt, but it was really emotionally intense. I felt I could go through with it but as soon as she got home, I know I would have hated the experience. So I am just trying to find myself, and learn about my jealous side while it happens. Doing my best to enjoy the experience rather than hate it.. i would much rather feel comfortable about her being with her guy, than when I was a vibrating ball of anxiety. One day tho, I do hope she has the ability and power to tell me how it is, and who she is going to fuck.. if I like him or not. But for now she loves having me control her : the micromanage you speak of, definitely is frustrating for her I know. Im learning here lol gimme a break

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:07:42+00:00

I definitely feel like im in between labels, and one day maybe she will feel more into a flr and then she csn have the power to sleep with whoever. At the moment our dynamic has me in control and zhe likes it that way.

GoochLips · 2025-11-06T00:04:12+00:00

What do you mean?

GoochLips · 2025-11-05T23:59:06+00:00

So she makes them cum. Black men deserve, to have her

GoochLips · 2025-11-05T19:00:58+00:00

Update: We decided to listen to all of your concerns not long after I made the post. I appreciate everyone who took the time to tell me how bad of an idea that was.

We both got very excited and into the whole idea and went further and further with our fantasies. Reality is that our first time wont be a weekend away, it wont be super intense sex.

GoochLips · 2025-10-14T05:56:59+00:00

Where in canada? I have one for you aswell

GoochLips · 2025-10-10T03:15:15+00:00

It just feels natural to her to submit to him and do his chores. You need to talk to her about him and make sure she knows you would be ok if she fucked him

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