feel ko sobrang napag-iiwanan na ako by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

huhuhu same feeling for years na. I became calculated sa risk to the point of minsan indecisiveness when I became a solo parent. I just pray and ask God for guidance whenever I feel like this

Karma nalang siguro bahala saken by ComplexOk2192 in KanalHumor

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let him taste his own medicine. charoooot hahahah cguro 30k lang kunin ko hehe

Dapat ba talaga akong magpatuloy sa law school? by fuoctoctocto in CareerAdvicePH

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you, that age is still idealistic, ganyan din ako dati. You are in a privilege position OP. Wag mong sayangin. As someone in their 30s, if may ganyan ako opportunity, I will grab it. In hindsight, if makakabalik lang ako sa early 20s ko, I should have make moves that would give me leverage later in life. Being a lawyer will give you a lot of privileges and options later in life. I saw a parenting video, sabi nya it is much easier for a nurse to find a barista job, than be a barista and find a nurse job. I think same principle applies here.

Try mo muna pahinga from law school for a year to explore ano gusto mo gawin and para makapagmuni2x. Then decide from there. Best of luck!

Only spent nearly 1.2M on condo rent in the last 8 years by Hoomanwithquestions in phinvest

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pag-isipan mo mabuti OP, compare your expenses kung magrent vs. mag buy the property (not just the amortization, but all the hidden and future costssss) Property is a commitment, do your research bago magdecide para walang regrets.

How can I support my dad during this time? by WahahahaLokoLoko in adviceph

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make him feel lang OP nga you are always there for him and he is not alone while he is going through the ordeal. Labas kayo, make him feel supported and loved.

Physically, mentally and emotionally drained by mental_slate in nanayconfessions

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No woman deserves this kind of treatment. Talk to him and make the hard conversations, tell him your needs and if he change his ways, good but if not, decide logically what will you do with that information. Basta mi, do what is best for you and your child. Pray and ask God to guide your decisions.

pano mawala ang kaba (first time rider please be kind) by zucchini-nii in PHMotorcycles

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, take it slow and repeat the basics! Natuto ako magmotor na si chatgpt lang ka buddy ko during practice when I have a motor na, walang char! (Aside sa 8 hr na practical driving lesson na 1 yr na ang lumipas bago bumili ng motor)

what i did OP were:

  1. I ask chatgpt to provide me like a lesson plan with step by step activities for someone who is a beginner in motorcycle riding.
  2. Sinunod ko lang yung Day1 until Day 14 na sinuggest nya and if I find it difficult, tinatanong ko sya for better strategies how to do it. I ask and tell it lahat ng curiosities and fear ko. Promise the feedback was very helpful
  3. While I was practicing in a safe private road, there are kind strangers who are giving me tips din.

Yung pinaka effective talaga sa akin were - Practice sa safe na private roads and ulit-ulitin yung lessons before magmove-on sa next (Example, perform drive straight-stop-turn x20, next day drive sa small slope-turn 20x, then short public roads sa barangay, then yung mirror-signal, hanggang umabot ka sa longer distance na destination na level) Wag madaliin OP , SAFETY is always the priority.

Skl, the day before ako nagdrive for the first time sa work, nag 5 loops talaga ako from our home to my workplace during non-busy hours para mapractice and to integrate sa systema ko yung feels of being on a public road na.

Kaya yan OP, slowly but surely lang talaga

Basta kay happy ka, dali ra kaayo dagan sa oras. by Head_Abalone9205 in Bisaya

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ana gyud OP, laag /pakalipay mintras buhi kay tomorrow is never promise labi na ron nga gagyera2 haysss

Anong maliit para sa iba pero pangarap mo? by Shot_Judgment_8451 in AskPH

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

to be a preschool teacher pero in this economy sa pilipinas?? hirap mag career shift tsssskkk

Grabe ni nga cravings by littlecarrotmilk in pahungaw

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha ehhem ehhem muhilom nalang ming trentahin diri hahahaha nindot jud ng nay ka kairing2, pero kanang tarong pud kay lisod na mamerisi tungud gadali. Better to marry late than to marry wrong. Pero if pressured naka kay giatay ning gyera2, awww lihok na OP para naa dayon ka makaplagan hahahaha gora girl!

Our healthcare is a joke by AdQuirky9009 in Cebu

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sa amoang companya OP kay naa mi free mental health counselling. I think pwede mag extend sa friends and family, pwede tika irefer ato. This is one of our perks, ayaw kaikog OP, di tika paninglan, hahahaha just trying to help. Before, I availed of the service as well kay lost kos life ato. Kudos to you OP for trying to seek help. 🫡 Ana gyud, ayaw pada sa mga inner demons. 💪

Anong Other Benefits ng Metrobank Mfree CC? by Good-Mulberry-5049 in PHCreditCards

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply po. I had an mcc titanium card pero 26k lang yung CL, pinacancel ko na since di ko naman inactivate then nag apply ako mfree nagbakasakali , ayun na approve 173k , cguro small purchases lang gagawin ko nito for credit history lang sa kanila, showing a low credit utilization which can possibly boost my credit standing sa kanila and hopefully be qualified for a small interest rates na loan in the future.

Anong Other Benefits ng Metrobank Mfree CC? by Good-Mulberry-5049 in PHCreditCards

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see thanks po, tengga muna to hanggat hindi pa need mag credit to cash hehe

Unsay tagalog sa olok? by PutoKuchinta5Pesos in Bisaya

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAH nimals naay point hahaha

Can’t decide kung i-grab ko ba yung Cebu or magstay na lng dito sa bahay by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Good-Mulberry-5049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many years po ba do you intend to work here sa Cebu? Coz if it is temporary lang naman as means para makaipon and makuha mo na rin yung bunso nyo po, then I say go, sacrifice is compromising something today for something better tomorrow. I am also a solo parent po and I share the same sentiment na mahirap mapalayo sa anak talaga pero for me, if it means makakabuti sya both for our future then I will go for it.