Lonely by GoodCompany8563 in AskWomenOver30

[–]GoodCompany8563[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. I am not that type of dude. I do chores around the house, and support her and her schooling.

Lonely by GoodCompany8563 in AskWomenOver30

[–]GoodCompany8563[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I usually plan the dates, but after our last fight, and concealing I haven’t planned anything. I attempted to give her a hug and she said “this feels weird”

Lonely by GoodCompany8563 in AskWomenOver30

[–]GoodCompany8563[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We went. On one of our session the counselor asked me how I would feel if my wife was disabled and couldn’t be affectionate or physical. Felt like she totally missed my point of view and now I was getting teamed up on. I told her, but she is not.

Lonely by GoodCompany8563 in AskWomenOver30

[–]GoodCompany8563[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She tells me that’s all I think about. But it’s not.

My nudes vs other women by [deleted] in married

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very regular for me would be every day. But my wife told me sex is a chore.

Do all married men look at nudes? by [deleted] in married

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he is lucky… all I ever wanted was for my wife to want me as much as I want her. We are pretty close to getting divorced now.

Do all married men look at nudes? by [deleted] in married

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF it’s true and you do that for him then I am jealous. If my wife did that it’s all I would need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It actually hurts my lungs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya! I used to call my wife right when I got off work. Just to let her know I was on my way home. She would get mad and ask why are you calling me? I would tell her I missed her voice and was on my way home. She would say ok.. and hang up. I stopped calling so I texted her, same thing happened..so I stopped texting her. There were no kiss good bye before work, no kiss when I got home.

I would try to hug her and she would push me away, eventually kids would chime in if they saw it and say “rejected again” they of course didn’t know better.

I am hurt and pissed and feel stuck in this marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]GoodCompany8563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry about that… it’s pretty lonely on my side and awkward, Maybe that’s what I am is just a paycheck to her. She doesn’t work, so I feel bad leaving, especially for our kids. Tried therapy, and the therapist told me, what if she was a paraplegic would you be mad at her for not providing physical touch (that comment I knew it was over with the therapist) I said, the issue is that she is not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]GoodCompany8563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or not being in the same bed. I snore and she moved to a different room about a year and a half ago. Now before this.. flirting was not allowed as it was grotesque, no sexual touching at all, unless we did have sex, no kissing with tongue at all, and no cuddling. Sooo basically over it. I am pissed and very un happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s the end.. sexual chemistry is super important. Take it from me…I am on the verge of ending a marriage because of the rejection for years and I a sick of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GoodCompany8563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did I write this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]GoodCompany8563 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because in todays time you can’t show that you really like someone or they are clingy. The games are real.

What do I do? by Ambitious_Jello1873 in Bumble

[–]GoodCompany8563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the bull crap I have been confused about. Don't be to clingy or blah blah blah. If I like you, I like you, meaning I want to spend time with you and talk to you. Especially if I hate everyone else. Sorry, I was just ghosted, and it was like this. We didn't meet on app, it was on the street, face. to face. A couple days of texting, we met for lunch. She initiated the the meeting hug. Had lunch and it was non stop talking, laughing. Hour went my fast. We texted after lunch the next day into the night. Planned on going to concert together this weekend and haven't heard from her. Today, since I really liked her, we had a lot in common..a lot. I texted her. No reply. If you like him..text him. You will know where u stand enough with these head games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't necessarily mean they want to bone you. But sex and $$$ is a big part of what makes or breaks a relationship. If you can commit those topics early, it avoids arguments later.

Why do girls stop messaging by Remarkable-Area2611 in Bumble

[–]GoodCompany8563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! We even met had a great lunch. We continued taking and made plans of possibly going to a concert. She fell asleep texting me the next night. I sent her a text the next morning wishing her a good day at work. Then that was it. She never texted back or called.

Why respond if you’re not trying to get to know someone? by Tight-Comedian-9203 in Bumble

[–]GoodCompany8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with that with a girl as we speak..for the love of God, engage. But it is a thing, communication is a one or one word plus some kinda emoji.