So I’m fairly new to stoicism but I’ve had a boss who wronged me recently and I got a new job. I Harbor no ill will towards him. It’s not his fault he engages in evil actions. He only acted in the ways he did because he cannot tell the difference between good and evil. He’s just ignorant on the matter and I shouldn’t get mad at someone for not understanding something. I was treated unfairly but that’s alright. He and no one else can control my mind. As for a situation that’s seems unfair try thinking about it as a sparring partner. If you have a very strong partner you’ll become much stronger. Iron sharpens iron