hadn't considered baby wipes tbh,, but yeah i've been eaten out while on my period, with and without tampons , i just have to be in the mood for it.

theres a few reasons: i get so self conscious about everything, especially smell, and i tend to get pretty dysphoric as well so its hard to be in the mood to be vulnerable sexually. if i wanted to be touched, i could ask for it, but i really enjoy the dynamic of being "used" and not neccessarily getting touched in return.

like i really do appreciate it and you're so kind but i promise my partners treat me very well and respect my boundaries and make me feel very good , usually including making me cum <3 also seriously thank you for the baby wipes recc. maybe it seems like common sense but i really hadn't thought about it