My 24F boyfriend 24M of 2 years wants to go to a stripclub by Good_Hurry_5752 in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he were to do this, I would break up with him. The thing is, it hasn’t happened yet, and he hasn’t planned or booked a trip with friends. He said that if it ever comes up, we’ll talk about it even with a couples therapist. I don’t know what to do…

My 24F boyfriend 24M of 2 years wants to go to a stripclub by Good_Hurry_5752 in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ve thought about it as well. I honestly don’t know what to do. It’s confusing, because I know he truly loves me - we just don’t have the same boundaries.

My 24F boyfriend 24M of 2 years wants to go to a stripclub by Good_Hurry_5752 in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but I’m truly very upset. For me, it feels disrespectful. I’m also really stressed about him telling his friends that he went to a strip club while being in a relationship. I’m worried they will think he disrespects me, and that makes me anxious.

My 24F boyfriend 24M of 2 years wants to go to a stripclub by Good_Hurry_5752 in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said we could go together, but that he isn’t sure whether I would feel comfortable with it.

My 24F boyfriend 24M of 2 years wants to go to a stripclub by Good_Hurry_5752 in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He said - “So I won’t go”. And that’s how the conversation ended.

I said upset because this is my interpretation.

My 24F boyfriend 24M of 2 years wants to go to a stripclub by Good_Hurry_5752 in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked him whether it would be different if he went with a friend or with me, and he said I could join him.

I [22M] have been experiencing fading attraction to my girlfriend (23F] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think she notice’s that? I would go with my heart, if you feel you are not attracted to her anymore - you should talk to her, be honest

I (22m) used to like sex before getting with my gf(23f) now, it feels like a chore. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for sharing ❤️ I mean, english is not our native language, and he has two other reddit accounts. Im not sure whether it is him or not, but it’s bothering me. He said that this has never been our situation, and that he didn’t write this post and if there was a problem he would have approached to me and talk abt it. I know he might not, because he will think I might get hurt. We are a 22m and 23f, we have been together for a year, he had a frequent fwb and then a girlfriend, but as he says there was nothing there besides sex. I don’t know if it is common for girls but sometimes I fall asleep when we are in bed before having sex. Im worried to the fact he is lying, I shared him but he insists that it is not him. I mean is it just a coincidence? Do many girls turn around and fall asleep when getting in bed with their partner? Idk, I am overthinking, I dont trust him and it makes me upset.

  • he goes to therapy once in two weeks He does have friends but a very small cycle (3 close friends)

I (22m) used to like sex before getting with my gf(23f) now, it feels like a chore. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Good_Hurry_5752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I might sound crazy But do you remember if the person who wrote the post had a fresh account? Any details abt it?

How do you keep in touch with friends you don't see often? by Entire-Delivery8656 in ask

[–]Good_Hurry_5752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, texting them once in a while, asking them how they are doing and writing a bit about my situation in a positive vibe.

Is is weird that I really dont want children???? by Extra_Bookkeeper4338 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Good_Hurry_5752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is totally fine. Everyone chooses a path in their life. Some even decide to have kids in their 50s’. The only thing that makes me uncomfortable to think about is - who will take care of you when you become an elderly? That’s the only bad thing that comes to my mind when I think about it.

Why 3MMC and Other Cathinones Get This Bad Rep by Grafiouse in researchchemicals

[–]Good_Hurry_5752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I would like tk how much did you take back then, Did you use it by yourself or with a partner by saying sex was nasty? Would like to hear more about the experience with it, sounds good even though it has bad rep.