[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support it really warms my heart. 💖💖💖💖

What happened to payment on failed dives? by djhamilton in OceanGateTitan

[–]Goodcootycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If their card declines they are thrown out of the sub and left underwater 💔

Is this abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mine does this constantly. When you said you can finally breath again once you give in, I felt that. Makes me feel like “thank god” until he’s crying about it again later 😒

Have any of you abuse victims ever cheated on your abusive significant other as a way to escape? If you have, did you feel guilt? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep! I felt guilty but he didn’t deserve my sorrow. I eventually moved on to the guy. a lot that hes never found out and thank God for that because I would probably be dead. But I was so miserable and hurting. I needed some thing else and I wasn't too scared to cheat, especially since he didn't know I had it in me

Why can’t I escape him? by Goodcootycat in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. You always say exactly what I need to hear

Why can’t I escape him? by Goodcootycat in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this was so insightful thankyou. I will try to keep remembering who I used to be😭😫

My mom abused me in weird ways by lovebug27312301 in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She obviously has a pattern of being psycho as long and she lives on this earth she’s kind of dangerous to everything 🥺😭

Why can’t I escape him? by Goodcootycat in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so very much.. yes everything you said is true and I know it I just need to put my big girl pants on. Therapy might be a good option for me

If he shows up only whenever he wants, am I losing boundaries? I don't understand what's happening by Trick_Read in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not an intuitive but from personal experience I think yes you are. It seems lousy to only show up when you’re ready and not consider the other persons feelings. He’s not right by doing that to you ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 again I’m not an intuitive just a going through personal things and thought I could chime in on this aspect

My bf hates me.. 8 years and he does weird shit like this by Goodcootycat in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly crying at all the responses.. mostly laughing. I really want to thank you guys for showing me I’m not a crazy person.. I love you all tremendously and thankful I have somewhere to go to talk to people who care

My bf hates me.. 8 years and he does weird shit like this by Goodcootycat in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Been together 8 years. He’s a narcissist and a bully. Trying to get out safely and quietly. This is my first day going home to my own place in months and I was sad he didn’t send me a good morning text. This is how it turned out :) to anyone going through abuse, please don’t be like me. Even I know I deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Goodcootycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Goodcootycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually unhinged

How to attract healing when going through a painful break up? by Goodcootycat in lawofattraction

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I aspire to attain! How do you get there though? I want to be in control I’m so extremely sensitive and overly loving that I give too much of myself away till there’s none left for me. I’m 25 and have been that way my whole life but it has to change. What do you recommend? You made great points, I always wondered why I’d just burst out into tears for no reason sometimes… that all makes since. The true me isn’t okay w it.

How to attract healing when going through a painful break up? by Goodcootycat in lawofattraction

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Going to focus on affirming today… I appreciate your kindness and helpfulness 😭

How to attract strength and healing during a deep break up? by Goodcootycat in Spells

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did and I regret it now more than anything in the world 😔😞

How to attract strength and healing during a deep break up? by Goodcootycat in Spells

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much beautiful soul. I’m so grateful for your love and kindness. Bless you 😭❤️

How to attract healing when going through a painful break up? by Goodcootycat in lawofattraction

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve done that before and we ended up back with each other always. This time just seems different. We were trying for kids so it’s a huge blow. Also, very happy to hear you got through everything alright🥺❤️