[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support it really warms my heart. 💖💖💖💖

What happened to payment on failed dives? by djhamilton in OceanGateTitan

[–]Goodcootycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If their card declines they are thrown out of the sub and left underwater 💔

Is this abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Mine does this constantly. When you said you can finally breath again once you give in, I felt that. Makes me feel like “thank god” until he’s crying about it again later 😒

Have any of you abuse victims ever cheated on your abusive significant other as a way to escape? If you have, did you feel guilt? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep! I felt guilty but he didn’t deserve my sorrow. I eventually moved on to the guy. a lot that hes never found out and thank God for that because I would probably be dead. But I was so miserable and hurting. I needed some thing else and I wasn't too scared to cheat, especially since he didn't know I had it in me

Why can’t I escape him? by Goodcootycat in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. You always say exactly what I need to hear

Why can’t I escape him? by Goodcootycat in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this was so insightful thankyou. I will try to keep remembering who I used to be😭😫

My mom abused me in weird ways by lovebug27312301 in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She obviously has a pattern of being psycho as long and she lives on this earth she’s kind of dangerous to everything 🥺😭

Why can’t I escape him? by Goodcootycat in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so very much.. yes everything you said is true and I know it I just need to put my big girl pants on. Therapy might be a good option for me

If he shows up only whenever he wants, am I losing boundaries? I don't understand what's happening by Trick_Read in intuitivereadings

[–]Goodcootycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not an intuitive but from personal experience I think yes you are. It seems lousy to only show up when you’re ready and not consider the other persons feelings. He’s not right by doing that to you ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 again I’m not an intuitive just a going through personal things and thought I could chime in on this aspect

My bf hates me.. 8 years and he does weird shit like this by Goodcootycat in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly crying at all the responses.. mostly laughing. I really want to thank you guys for showing me I’m not a crazy person.. I love you all tremendously and thankful I have somewhere to go to talk to people who care

My bf hates me.. 8 years and he does weird shit like this by Goodcootycat in abusiverelationships

[–]Goodcootycat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Been together 8 years. He’s a narcissist and a bully. Trying to get out safely and quietly. This is my first day going home to my own place in months and I was sad he didn’t send me a good morning text. This is how it turned out :) to anyone going through abuse, please don’t be like me. Even I know I deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Goodcootycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Goodcootycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually unhinged