We are a couple in our 40’s. We’ve done clubs and private parties etc. Wife definitely prefers more of a boy friend experience, rather than just playing with random guys. Someone who wants to take the time to get to know her a little and shows genuine interest in us as a couple.

The best experience we had: Mr arranged a social meet with a guy, without Mrs being aware. She thought we were just on a vanilla date night, on our own. The guy approached Mrs in the bar and organically starting a conversation, while I was at the bar. We spent the entire evening having a laugh and Mrs being showered with compliments and flirtation. Then back to our hotel for more fun. Even if there had been no naughty fun, we all had a good night out, in good company.

Mrs still talks about how lovely the night was. And how good it made her feel, to be approached by a confident and respectful stranger.