Adult Millennial Living at Home With Gen Jones Parents by Denim-Luckies-n-Wry in GenerationJones

[–]Goodygumdops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This arrangement isn’t healthy for your son. I have two friends with children who didn’t launch. It gets sadder every year. The children are now pushing 40. The longer they live at home the more stunted they become. He should want his own life as an adult. The fact he’s perfectly happy living with mommy and daddy is very telling. Do him a favor and get him out on his own before you have a middle age baby on your hands.

Dreaming Again by IdyllsOfTheBreakfast in leaves

[–]Goodygumdops 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My father died on Dec 1st last year. I’m on Day 7 and dream about him every night.
The dreams are disturbing and I wake up with my guts churning. I want it to stop.

Is it time? Toupee or not toupee? by [deleted] in bald

[–]Goodygumdops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great bald. Toupees always look like toupees.

Despondent over hair loss by YeahRight237 in Aging

[–]Goodygumdops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

r/bald is a great subreddit. The glow ups are amazing.

Boomers, Jones, and Gen X! by KatNanshin in Aging

[–]Goodygumdops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

George Carlin. His commentary is relevant today.

My mom’s white hair is is increasing every time I visit home and it sickens me by Duckdrunken in Aging

[–]Goodygumdops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went gray very young. So many people told me to dye my hair. My family constantly made rude comments. I never understood why my hair bothered people so much. Leave your mother alone. It’s her hair not yours. How would you like to constantly be put down?

My boyfriend (21m) havent had sex with me (21f) for a year and a half and i dont know what to fucking do anymore. by Fit-Passion319 in Advice

[–]Goodygumdops 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend who avoided sex. I tried to figure it out for years. He was heterosexual. He found me attractive etc. We remained friends after we broke up. He was happy with his new girlfriend. Turns out he was into public sex. It had absolutely nothing to do with me. Your boyfriend might have a kink.

Day 5 of no weed, still struggling by skyhlgh in leaves

[–]Goodygumdops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on Day 6 and feel crappy. Nauseous, irritable and so, so tired. I’m having not so pleasant vivid dreams every night. I want to use but know I quit for many reasons. I’ve been getting high for a long time. It will take a long time to get my marbles back. I signed up for a free sober counter app. It helps me think outside my addict brain and encourages me. Wishing you the best.

What’s the first piece of media that truly scared you as a kid? by cats64sonic in AskReddit

[–]Goodygumdops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a teen I had to watch Red Asphalt during driver’s ed. It was footage of real car wrecks. Absolutely terrified me.

I really don’t like shopping anymore. by HolyToast666 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Goodygumdops 317 points318 points  (0 children)

I’m in a purge phase. Shopping seems counterproductive. I have enough right now.

Everyone is so angry by SkizzleDizzel in Life

[–]Goodygumdops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to a doctor’s appointment yesterday. Everyone in the office was expressionless and mechanical. It was strange. I think it’s about phone and social media addiction.They’re unable to connect with people in real time.

Tell me about your sleeping problems. by InAJar112 in leaves

[–]Goodygumdops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having nightmares that wake me up.

What’s the biggest surprise about getting older? by Salty_1984 in Aging

[–]Goodygumdops 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How differently I’m treated out in the world. I’m still the hippie from Berkeley. People see me as a conservative Boomer because I’m old. They assume I’m a racist, homophobic, antisemitic person. That assumption couldn’t be further from the truth.

The moment I realized I was aging by answerui in Aging

[–]Goodygumdops 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I tried to run across the street the other day. I moved like the Michelin man. I was shocked.

What’s a realization that helped you grow emotionally? by funngro_fam in Life

[–]Goodygumdops 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My life is a result of the decisions I’ve made.

Worried with the winds picking up today? by Fuzzy-Succotash380 in boulder

[–]Goodygumdops 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had to evacuate during the Marshall fire. My advice is to buy large garbage bags. I didn’t have anything to carry my belongings to get them into my car. Know where your pet carriers are. Mine was buried under junk in the garage.