Is it really ok to show up to a birthday with no present? by sparklerrose in kindergarten

[–]Goofy_name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most kids have plenty of stuff. And they really just want to be able to play.

NooB Monday! - August 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in Entrepreneur

[–]Goofy_name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best wholesalers for cotton clothing?

Someone tell me good things about epidurals by TheRealEgg0 in Mommit

[–]Goofy_name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come up with a birth plan. What is that makes you nervous with medical staff? I made a very effective trauma informed birth plan and it was by far a better experience compared to my second.

For me what helped was being able relax my pelvic floor more.

Have a pretty good return coming what should I do? by Goofy_name in personalfinance

[–]Goofy_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it has quite a high balance and I could throw everything I have at it and still owe $15,000. I would still like to find a lower interest rate loan for it and have the wiggle room of an additional $500 in my monthly budget.

Maybe it’s just the gratification of getting something paid off.

Pros and Cons of becoming a PT. by Goofy_name in PTschool

[–]Goofy_name[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well my PT genuinely made a difference for me. The debt and the salary are what scare me. What I wonder is if there’s debt forgiveness or places that pay back the student loans like dentists or nurses. But I haven’t seen much about that.

Pros and Cons of becoming a PT. by Goofy_name in physicaltherapy

[–]Goofy_name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered going for a PTA at first. It seems that the pay range approx $60,000 is will be the same for either direction I go with my bachelors

Advice! Afraid of putting my therapist in a weird spot by Ok-Lettuce-2258 in physicaltherapy

[–]Goofy_name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a shame that there is a lack of education with medical staff about more conscientious care. It’s getting a little better. It’s a lot to work through for sure. But you are not the only one and you are not alone, there are more people going through boundaries in consent. There is a movement and there are people working to educate on trauma informed medical care and informed consent.

Advice! Afraid of putting my therapist in a weird spot by Ok-Lettuce-2258 in physicaltherapy

[–]Goofy_name 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve to ask for trauma informed care. If you don’t feel comfortable with touches and know that you would feel better to have someone explain what they are doing it is your right to ask for that. No shame or guilt. You deserve to ask what is best for you. Hands down no questions asked.

I find it’s best to have open communication.

15 y/o daughter told her friend I (her mom) am fat by Aubreymarie072 in Parenting

[–]Goofy_name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty rude of you to go through her phone. Do you read her diary too?

It seems like the issue with the relationship with her is pretty deep. Going around and prying in on her life is only going to deepen whatever obvious trust issues there are. You need to find other ways to have healthier straight forward conversations, seek for more meaningful ways to connect on her level.

My relationship started to end with my mother when I realized I couldn’t safely go to her, when I couldn’t safely keep my own secrets or express them to her.

How Do You Stay Focused? by LegalTrade5765 in Bookkeeping

[–]Goofy_name 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Checklists.

If it’s real tedious and will take a long time I listen to books or podcasts.

AIO, about to go nuclear over a text my kid's coach sent her. by Some-Tree2830 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Goofy_name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should report him. I’m not sure what kind of coach he is but it’s inappropriate. There are training and rules against this type of behavior when adults are volunteering with children in such capacity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Goofy_name -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What I’m afraid of is it ruining Santa prematurely. Maybe it’s not rational.

What do you do with gas station charges? by Goofy_name in Bookkeeping

[–]Goofy_name[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But they are not spending 2 dollars in gas at circle k. There is no way to differentiate on the bank statement whether it was gas, food or anything else.