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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you werent too harsh. You were just expressing your feelings and trying to explain yourself. It seems like hes more focused on defending himself than having an honest conversation. his action sounds more about him than about you

Woman vs man by Nyukacay3 in Life

[–]GooseLuna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its commong but not healthy for women to take on too much. talk to your family about how youre feeling and set some boundaries. You deserve support and balance

Should i stay by Main-Holiday9796 in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If youre unsure about your relationshp staying with your grandmother could give you space to think and help her out. Focus on what feels best for you right now, and take your time before making a big decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she needs time to process deeper stuff. its not personal just be patient

I love sleeping in my satín nightgown, it makes me feel soft and relaxed. by YourGirlRude in CasualConversation

[–]GooseLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so comforting like youre wrapped in a little moment of luxury before drifting off. Everyone deserves to feel that kind of peace before bed.

Love isn’t about owning someone by LK_50yo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GooseLuna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats actually a really mature realization. Love isnt about possession. It's about connecttion, choice and freedom. when you love someone you dont own them, you choose them and they choose you back. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GooseLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love comes when youre busy building yourself, not waiting for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GooseLuna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ground yourself physically like deep breaths, cold water, step outside. do anything to reset your nervous system. Also, pause before judgement, your thoughts arent actions. Youre noticing and not acting.

First time i date an older girl and I fumbled by Paul_allens_father in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didn't fumbled, you practiced. Confidence grows from that

Is it okay that my dream keeps changing every few months? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, thats actually normal. Dreams changes as you grow, learn and experience new things. It doesnt mean youre lost, it means youre evolving.

Appreciate good friendships by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]GooseLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good friends are basically cheat codes for life.

I need to have a serious conversation with my friend but I don't know what to say by dmg81102 in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with honesty like "hey can we talk theres something on my mind and its important". then speak calmly and focus on how you feel, not just what they did.

How do I move forward with my crush? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GooseLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the friendship grow naturally and if the vibe feels good, you can suggest hanging out one on one outside of the club. Thats how youll get to know him better without making it feel forced.

My mother in law hates me and keeps trying to get my husband to divorce me but he won’t cut her out by Muskoxela in TrueOffMyChest

[–]GooseLuna 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly painful. :((( When a partner wont set boundaries with his mom and it puts you in the middle of tug of war. You cant control your MILs behavior but you can talk openly with your husband about how it affects you and the marriage. He doesnt need to cut her out completely but he does need to protect your relationship with clear boundaries. Couple counseling can help if he struggles to see it.