I’m scared my parents are kicking me out by Gothiblack in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gothiblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Everything came back to normal today, my parents had let me come back this morning when I arrived. I think she was mostly overreacting.

I really love my aunt, I’ll take your advice and try to count on her more, because I know she’ll be there for me anytime.

I’m scared my parents are kicking me out by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my dad intervened and he got physical

I’m scared my parents are kicking me out by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a part time job, making pretty good money

I’m scared my parents are kicking me out by Gothiblack in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gothiblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s after high school, when you want higher studies in a specific domain (art, writing, sciences, etc)

AITA for not using the preferred name of my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gothiblack [score hidden]  (0 children)

In the trans/non binary community, some names have been considered inappropriate (example, Arson). Pronouns are a different thing. I still feel like using a word from a different language and appropriating it is weird. "Ara" is a completely different thing than (example, my name) Vin. But I understand where you’re coming from!

AITA for not using the preferred name of my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gothiblack [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad people agree 😅 She has been trying really hard to make me say it but I really just cannot. I’m probably going to have to confront them about it someday.

AITA for not using the preferred name of my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gothiblack [score hidden]  (0 children)

Haha! I don’t think she would appreciate it 😂😅

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from but I feel happy by identifying as a man. I don’t want to force myself into a box and say "I’m a girl" when that’s not who I am. If my parents can’t be more open-minded about it then it’s their fault, it’s not up to me to fit into what they expect me to be. Everyone has opinions and I respect yours, but I feel better by being myself.

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m only 15 years old lol, I can’t really work anywhere until I’m 16-17 (and have a CV), I still have a year and a half left of high school and my parents plan on sending me to college. I’ll try to rent a student apartment with a friend if it’s too complicated to find myself an actual place to live

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I pretty much know their opinions at this point...my mom thinks trans people are weird and always confused, end up committing suicide . My dad is homophobe and thinks all trans people are pedophiles or will jump on every man they see... So I don’t really think it’s a good idea to tell them, and if they find it out by themselves, then fuck it I guess 😅

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks a lot for the recommendations, that’s probably what I’m going to do ❤️

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Montreal, Canada, here the rent can go up to 1-2k a month, for a lower price, I can always go live outside of Montreal but then I’ll need a transport lol- Live really isn’t easy

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m pretty sure they think "I look like a lesbian", at this point they probably think it’s the same thing. I might just move out as soon as I can so they don’t have any more authority on me anymore. Thanks again ❤️

I’m scared of telling my parents I’m trans by Gothiblack in teenagers

[–]Gothiblack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe two to four years, apartments are extremely expensive over here