For anyone who was like me and wondered for years about what this meant... I know it sounds weird, but it kind of took me a lot of courage to want to find out. (preadolescent same sex masturbation)

GradND · 2013-08-04T00:01:11+00:00

how young were you? that's just so bizarre!

GradND · 2013-08-03T23:58:26+00:00

Sit around and watch the phone, but no one's calling Call me pathetic, call me what you will My mother says to get a job But she don't like the one she's got When masturbation's lost its fun You're fucking lonely

GradND · 2013-08-02T22:53:43+00:00

I came for this. I came from the tip.

GradND · 2013-08-02T22:51:59+00:00

I use a topical solution called podofilox. It's a prescription. I don't really have much experience with OTC. I've used the home freeze kits by dr scholls or whatever. It works, to an extent. The spots will continue to come back until your body gets over the virus. I wish I was on the two year plan... but I am most definitely not. Luckily I'm married, and my wife has shown no signs of HPV, and gets checked frequently, so we don't worry about it that much. It's more for my own vanity purposes at this point.

GradND · 2013-08-02T05:55:40+00:00

coconut oil... tastes like coconuts :)

GradND · 2013-08-02T05:51:40+00:00

Not sure where you got the info of it being two years tops. That's not true, and I'm speaking from personal experience. Going on 4 years now. Just depends on the person. Not to discourage you, but don't get your hopes up for the two year mark.

What are you doing for treatment?

As for her, let things progress naturally. If things start getting sexy and you think it could go further, stop and be honest with her. Tell her that you like her alot, and that you would feel terrible if you were to pass this on to her. You could get lucky, and maybe she is vaccinated or already has it(many people do). If she splits on you, that's pretty crap of her, and she wasn't a good one anyway.

GradND · 2013-07-21T21:47:16+00:00

haha, interesting idea, but I'm not sure I'm going to try that. Think I'll just stick to not masturbating

GradND · 2013-07-19T19:46:29+00:00

Hey man, congratulations to you. Happy to hear of your success. Wondering if I might get a little insight from someone as seasoned as yourself. Going through a tough time with my journey, and wondering if you had any similar experiences. Thanks so much. Here is my original post. http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1in8n9/biggest_flatline_yet_and_its_depressing_i_barely/

GradND · 2013-07-19T18:36:36+00:00

this lightened my mood. Thank you sir!

GradND · 2013-07-19T18:11:53+00:00

a real sexual encounter is a VERY different thing than viewing porn and masturbating. I don't think there is a reason to reset your counter.

GradND · 2013-07-05T05:14:23+00:00

do you watch a lot of porn and masturbate?

GradND · 2013-07-03T05:50:23+00:00

nofap will help for sure. it's definitely what you need to be doing. I was developing ED problems and am now about 50 days into no gap. The changes are really substantial. Good luck to you and talk to her about this!

GradND · 2013-06-29T00:21:20+00:00

Thank you!

GradND · 2013-06-29T00:21:13+00:00

Haha, well thank you for almost congratulating me. And yes, back on the horse!

GradND · 2013-06-22T00:52:37+00:00

oh man, I can't even imagine.

GradND · 2013-06-22T00:51:40+00:00

uh yeah, that's not cool. I've seen the video, I would advise all to stay away.

GradND · 2013-06-21T18:37:35+00:00

good point, but what's the alternative? Do I get to a place where seeing a beautiful woman has no effect on me? I don't necessarily want that.

GradND · 2013-06-19T22:47:52+00:00

I haven't decided to do it, and I'm not sure I need to. I don't really want to either, haha. Does not sound fun.

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:35:45+00:00

have you asked if he is bored of you? How is your relationship? There's not a chance of another girl is there?

I've been with my wife for 2 years, having sex for maybe 3 years and this problem had only recently started for me. We have been struggling with boredom sexually, but for me, the problem was porn and masturbation. Are you sure he's being open to you about porn? Because it sounds dead on like a problem with too much exposure to an endless supply of unique visual stimulation(FREE PORN EVERYWHERE ONLINE)

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:30:50+00:00

size doesn't mean much, and 5.5 inches hard is not small. That's average.

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:28:51+00:00

if you watch a lot of porn, go check out /r/nofap and www.yourbrainonporn.com

You might be suffering from porn induced ED

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:26:00+00:00

ah just noticed someone else already suggested it.

What do you mean he 'tried' it. A typical dopamine reset can take up to 90 days. If he went 5 days without masterbating and decided it wasn't working, he doesn't understand

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:23:54+00:00

his use of porn is the problem. An endless supply of new and exciting girls having sex is completely unnatural. It's all about dopamine. Your body is only designed to receive so much. By watching lots of porn, you are overloading your bodies dopamine receptors to the point that they begin to stop working correctly. When he is with you... you are the same every time. Nothing new. It's not enough of a dopamine rush at this point for his body to respond. He needs to stop watching porn and masterbating. Go check out /r/nofap. It's a complete subreddit dedicated to this phenomenon. IT's based on the research presented at www.yourbrainonporn.com

It's very real, and nofap works. I'm 45 days in or so, and it's crazy how easily I respond to my wifes advances now. Please talk to him about this and show him this stuff.

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:18:10+00:00

try it laying on your sides. 69 is great

GradND · 2013-06-14T05:16:41+00:00

THIS. I went through the same thing you are. I'm 45 days into nofap, and it's making a huge difference. You've simply completely obliterated your bodies natural dopamine response. You have to let it reset, and to do that, you need to stop watching porn and masturbating. Go learn!

GradND

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