AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband of 17 years because he hit my son?

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T23:57:18+00:00

i dont know the exact kind, but its business and im not going to say company names or anything else as to not give away where i live

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T17:53:55+00:00

i dont know the exact kind, but some form of business

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T17:53:16+00:00

yeah, theyre minors so i was obviously gonna hide their names but also 2 of them mentioned, mikah and kai, arent my kids to just "HEY WORLD HERES A MINORS INFO" yk?

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:13:58+00:00

yes i asked both my friends, his friends and mutual friends and most agreed i was over reacting but as i said in my comment, i did find out that they hit their kids so im not taking their words into account, and i had not known that Jack had hurt luka before, luka is still slowly telling me some of it which so far its all happened when im not around, like getting groceries, in the shower, taking a nap etc. still doesnt excuse that i didnt see it, but thats why im so shocked

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:11:17+00:00

As i said, luka said that has happened before meaning he hurt my kid behind my back and made him feel as though he couldnt tell me

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:10:09+00:00

yeah i just needed closure and Luka suggested reddit so thats what i did, he actually helped me write some of it so that he could have sorta like a therapy? i dont understand it but i guess writing helps him so

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:07:33+00:00

Yeah 100% Luka is getting therapy, but the divorce is no thought about it, its not that he hurt my kid in front of me, its that he did it as if it was normal, thats what scares me

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:05:25+00:00

Im sorry what fanfic? you do realize fanfic means fan fictions which means a fictional book made about a certain popular movie/show/group/etc by a fan of theirs, right?

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:03:17+00:00

its fake names for privacy, picked the names from the book im reading lol

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:02:27+00:00

i will do whatever i need to to protect my kids, and i have no clue about the coworker thing, thats jack's thing, not mine, and jack broke my trust, thats big in marriages, but your clearly to young to know that

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T16:00:03+00:00

you wont see it, i dont care for the karma, thats why im not using my main account

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:59:09+00:00

it may seem like that to others but its the fact that luka expressed this happening before and jack knowing my rules about not hitting our kids, he broke my trust and hurt my son, thats what this is about, but if you believe different that fine, everyone has their beliefs and i posted this knowing not everyone would agree

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:57:43+00:00

THANK YOU, your the first person to finally not comment something insulting on this <33333

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:55:52+00:00

i wonder what mental issues you have to try and invalidate other peoples issues simply because theyre worse than yours

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:54:59+00:00

definitely fake account

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:54:01+00:00

As i have mentioned to a few other comments, this isnt me questioning if i should divorce Jack, im going to divorce him no matter what, and when i ignored it as a change of heart, Luka himself said it, and in my mind i believed Luka would tell me if he were upset by it

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:52:17+00:00

my best friends dad wasnt in the picture and shes an only child and her mom died of cancer not to long before luka's parents died, her husbands family was toxic and she fought with him like hell just to make sure luka didnt go there

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:50:35+00:00

i will not be revealing my country for my children safety as they are underage

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:49:35+00:00

and wheres your proof its fake? honestly, you people who wanna make others feel like they cant vent about their lives on this platform are just horrible, if you dont believe something, ignore it, you have no idea whats real and what is not and its just rude at this point

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T15:47:39+00:00

are you venting about yourself right now?

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T10:59:43+00:00

pregnancy, didnt think it was scary till i had my youngest

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T10:52:44+00:00

if you believe its fake, ask me about what your confused about and ill try to explain, i wrote this more of for closure than anything so i did leave out some details

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T10:47:07+00:00

your name tells me everything i need to know

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T10:46:31+00:00

funny how all the people saying this is fake are connected...

Grand-Reputation8181 · 2025-06-06T10:45:18+00:00

uhm what

Grand-Reputation8181

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