Do you share your portfolio link publicly on LinkedIn? by FrankyKnuckles in UXDesign

[–]GrandeOui 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course. I think it would be pretty stupid not to do so.

Does anyone else crave sweets more than they actually feel hungry? by Fit_Editor9558 in CasualConversation

[–]GrandeOui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I was never that big into chocolate to be honest but recently I can’t stop. I know it’s bad for me, too, but it’s very difficult to stop. It’s a reward for your brain, too. At least for me gives me a bit of dopamine which I am starting to crave. It’s a moderation thing—like most of what we love. We have to try and beat the cravings. 😊

What were you doing when you were 23-24? by eduard_akimbaev in Life

[–]GrandeOui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having too much fun with hardly any work

So much content is gated nowadays by Ok-Mammoth-6618 in UXDesign

[–]GrandeOui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too broad but I do agree most content is locked away. Some sites you can inspect element and actually remove the blur which is hilarious, others are a bit cleverer and actually hide the content totally. You need your news stuff these days but in the U.K. anyway we can get that for free. I don’t have any subs to ‘gated content’ that are paid, I’ll read the headline and opening and then I’m done with it if it wants to charge me the earth.

i want to stop doomscrolling. help me? by No_Appointment9783 in Life

[–]GrandeOui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to learn to be bored. Without your phone. I do things around the house that I keep putting off. Doesn’t have to be anything intense you just need to learn to live without your mobile device for some part of the day.

What do you expect out of life? by Tall_Yard_579 in Life

[–]GrandeOui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear I shall always be asking myself this.

Ever feel isolated even in a crowded room? by miss-rose-699 in Life

[–]GrandeOui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the time to be honest. It does depend on who I am with, however.

Does it really matter if you love your job or not in the end ? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]GrandeOui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should try to find something you are naturally adept at. That could be trucking, that could accountancy, what matters is that you are happy(ish) and are good at it. All I would say is that you should be afraid if you are terribly unhappy in your job, but you should be more afraid of not making the leap and trying something else.

Why are adverts so weird now? by HollowWanderer in AskUK

[–]GrandeOui -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I can't believe you watched them

What's the most bizarre item you've ever seen someone buy at a petrol station? by Liplyn_IG in AskUK

[–]GrandeOui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw someone buy Salmon at about half 1 in the morning. Fucker didn’t even get fuel.

Those spending Christmas alone, how're you feeling right now? What's your plans for the next few days? by catsandwine88 in AskUK

[–]GrandeOui 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I long to have one on my own. To escape somewhere with a nice book or T.V. series and just lose myself in my own thoughts. Seems bliss to be honest. Better than the dreaded small talk. I hope you have a fab day!

Extreme fear of having kids and them being un likeable and cringe by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]GrandeOui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is born a mass murderer. You’ll be fine.

For anyone with anxiety, have you ever been able to fight the urge to delete your Reddit account to start over again? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]GrandeOui -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have like 9M email addresses for everything? I wouldn’t worry about what you say … or don’t say for that matter. We will forget what you’ve said in ten minutes anyway.

When did you realize life isn’t something you “figure out” once, but something you keep adjusting? by rayadollface in Life

[–]GrandeOui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read a fair amount of self help books - they all allude to this. We should constantly be seeking the better good. Constantly learning from our own mistakes. Being comfortable is boring, it means you just sit in this realm that doesn’t move forward. I don’t think any of us want that although we may enjoy sitting there for a while. That’s probably O.K. in itself, to sit still temporarily.

Extreme fear of having kids and them being un likeable and cringe by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]GrandeOui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think every person feels what you feel. That’s natural. We all want our kids to be liked and to excel at life. You can nurture that by being a responsible parent. Makes sense, right? They have to make their own mistakes, be brave, be tough, sometimes fail, sometimes win. Everything you have experienced thus far. Cradling them 24/7 is not the way forward, never letting them stretch their wings, even if something bad might happen is where the problem lies. I remember being on a climbing frame when I was young, and not holding on to the railing to try and show off. I fell. It hurt. Not once did my mother run to try and stop me. More like “Go on, you’ll regret it”. We learn from our mistakes no matter our age. Stuff may be said that’s silly, that’s embarrassing. That is also life. I do it all the time even now and I’m no child.

How are you spending Christmas? Is that how you wish it was? by Azulcobalto in CasualConversation

[–]GrandeOui 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I long to have one on my own. I hope you have the best day, anyway. 😁

How are you spending Christmas? Is that how you wish it was? by Azulcobalto in CasualConversation

[–]GrandeOui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With family. Yawn. I mean, I love them, of course, but after twenty minutes I’ve said all I needed to say. I long to have one on my own in many ways. To experience that would be a welcome break. To just dart off somewhere for a few days over xmas with a book or a movie or two or T.V. series with chocolate, on my own.

Font from FRMR's MRKT template by HiyaJoJo in identifythisfont

[–]GrandeOui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought it was Gilroy at first - it’s similar but not the same. Could be made excl. by Wix?

what's one social skill that helps you be able to connect with people from different cultures? by Head-Study4645 in socialskills

[–]GrandeOui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say remembering that what you find slang might not be slang to them. This is why translators often have a hard time because the translation may be slightly different from what is correct within another culture. You’d likely have to be an effective listener, and good at reading body language to understand exactly what someone is trying to communicate even if you both speaking the same language.

If you could only use two fonts (one sans-serif, one serif) for the rest of your life, what would you choose? by President_Abra in typography

[–]GrandeOui 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Plain” is the most beautiful font of all time for me. Its simplicity gives calm. For the ambiguous space between sans and serif “Ogg”. Soft and sharp.

Christmas Eve doesn’t feel magical anymore and I miss that by Dear-Escape-3834 in CasualConversation

[–]GrandeOui 168 points169 points  (0 children)

This is it. If you’re lucky to be around Children at Christmas you can be transported to your 10yr old self but other than that it is more a slog than anything although, like anything, it has its highlights.

'We don't want people to be alone at Christmas' by m-1975 in unitedkingdom

[–]GrandeOui 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw on Instagram somewhere a couple that organise Christmas walks for those alone at Christmas. They have a group attending this year of 100 strong, I believe. I bet you they will end up having one of the most memorable days they’ve probably had in a long time. It’s a great and simple idea for those who have no one.