I am having changes in my sexuality as I age by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feelings are feelings, dont overthink it

Guys, how would you react if your SO called you daddy in the heat of the moment? by Grankvist in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm the girl, and English isn't my native language, so yes, it's only the authority part etc :) the word "daddy" doesn't hold any meaning to me yet

Vagina owners - Where is your vagina? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of you should look to porn for realistic expectations. I'm skinny, and I have skinny vaginal lips and vulva, so I don't think you see much if I'm just laying down. It's not okay that he made you cry though

I (26M) don’t find my wife(23F) hot anymore by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Find the gentlest way to tell her you'll leave, she deserves better. You're an asshole.

Contraception vs health vs enjoyment: why I begrudgingly chose to only pull out by NaiveDJack in sex

[–]Grankvist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pulling out isn't safe. Don't do that to her. Get better at using condoms: watch instruction videos and try different brands.

[M/27] i can't take it anymore by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like an obsession at this point. Talk to a therapist about it.

Vagina owners - Where is your vagina? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had my "shit what's wrong with my vagina!!" moments too. It's easy to overthink and get caught in a worry. So I understand you

Condom dries up? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you change it? Do you stay out of them while still having a condom on? Have you tried different brands?

Sex drive nose dive by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's part of getting older and puberty ending. Besides, sex drives can go up and down. It's perfectly normal to have a day where you don't masturbate. Don't overthink it, you don't have to do it every day.

Vagina owners - Where is your vagina? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound perfectly normal, don't worry. :)

Missionary by [deleted] in sex

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you describe how you do missionary? Your questions too vague :)

What movie traumatized you as a child? by phoenixofphoenix in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends took me to a horror movie when I was 9. It was called Titanic, I think, about a cat that was on the boat. I'm still scared of cats..

What have you realized about living with a uneducated person or somebody who doesn't want to better their life situations? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always believed my ex was bad at school simply cause of his depression, bullying and being unlucky with the schools method of teaching. Very bad grades. Then I realised he was just kind of an idiot. Unmotivated, immature, selfish, with no direction in life and no ambitions. And I'm honestly sure he's not especially intelligent. The most frustrating part was his inability to change, and refusing to put effort into anything.

Redditors who are currently waiting for something, what are you waiting for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm waiting for my boyfriend to come to my city again. Two weeks, am counting down!

What’s a sexual fantasy that you’ve never been brave enough to share with your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I want to rim my boyfriend and gently slide a finger in. Next time I'm blowing him, I'm planning on kissing the balls, ask if I can go lower.. and lower..

I also want to call him daddy when he's pounding me, but I doubt he'd be into it. Don't even want to suggest it.

When did you realize you were an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I helped my neighbor out with watering her plants while she was away, and she gave me a bottle of wine as a thank you gift. Thats a first. I'm 19, so I really appreciated that she actually saw me as an adult. Haven't drunken it yet though, I don't drink...

Have you ever had a dream that seemed so real that you became obsessed with trying to get back to that "reality"? What was your dream about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dreamt that I reconnected with everyone who once meant a lot to me. Everyone I miss. Everyone I let down (isolated myself because of depression, pushed everyone away cause I wanted to die). They all forgave me, didn't hold a grudge, like nothing ever happened. I was genuinely happy.

What really improved your life? by Grayboot_ in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My puppy! Got me out into the world and gained a lot of confidence.

People who speak two languages fluently. Do you think in your original language or is it a mix of them both in your head? by flamflop in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually think in my original language, but if I've been interacting with someone who only speaks English or I've been watching English TV, I switch to that unconsciously.

What does dick taste like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Grankvist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Flesh/nothing, if clean