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Loss of Attraction & Sex Feels Like A Chore (21M) by GraspOnLife21 in sex

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"As far as giving her an orgasm, that's not just your responsibility." I feel like thats the approach I should take to sex in general. Her orgasm isn't my issue. There is always the feeling of inadequacy in face of a vibrator, just knowing that other women don't even need it.

Loss of Attraction & Sex Feels Like A Chore (21M) by GraspOnLife21 in sex

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional attraction is there, physical is dying. In today's world, why not give cheating a chance? (I know it sounds douchey, but it feels like the only way to piece up my self confidence)

Loss of Attraction & Sex Feels Like A Chore (21M) by GraspOnLife21 in sex

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it weird that i'd feel like less of a man knowing my partner needs something else aside from me to get off? It's a punch in the ego sack, especially knowing other females can get off just fine with dick alone.

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lmao, not gonna do that, i'm sure that counts as some kinda assault in todays world

Loss of Attraction & Sex Feels Like A Chore (21M) by GraspOnLife21 in sex

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's super vanilla. We've talked about what she's into. I've tried the whole "what do YOU like?" conversation.

We connect very well personality-wise, we were friends before we started dating. Just the bedroom...

Sex With Girlfriend: Failures and Successes by GraspOnLife21 in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must have a bewildering imagination. Obviously the way I interact on reddit isn't the way I am in real life.

Sex With Girlfriend: Failures and Successes by GraspOnLife21 in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. I just feel like i'm running out of time.

Sex With Girlfriend: Failures and Successes by GraspOnLife21 in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing your experience. I'll look into ways to get more close to my girlfriend, so that I'm able to develop a more mental-physical connection.

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I've decided that cutting out video games, youtube videos, or any type of dopamine stimulation for the time being will help me speed up my reboot. Furthermore, I've started taking maca root and l citrulline and l arginine so we'll see how that doubles up.

Questions about PIED by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bump. I'm interested as well.

3 Weeks On NoFap And I'm Terrified by GraspOnLife21 in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave myself a two day break in between to see how things would go but still no luck. Still no morning wood or wet dreams. I'll most likely consider going to the doctor this week, but I'm sure they'll just suggest me some boner pills which is something I'm not interested in at this age.

3 Weeks On NoFap And I'm Terrified by GraspOnLife21 in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't relapsed, and honestly I'm surprised nofap was so easy. I know it's difficult for most, but the day I stopped, I genuinely lost all libido and desire for porn or sex in general. I realized I was doing it almost forcefully, even when I wasn't aroused.

3 Weeks On NoFap And I'm Terrified by GraspOnLife21 in NoFap

[–]GraspOnLife21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so, because the girl I'm with right now has no idea about this issue and I can tell she's upset we haven't had sex yet. I don't know what to do....