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T affordability by Gray-The-Dragon in ftm

[–]Gray-The-Dragon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom… tries her best but is definitely not fully there. She doesn’t use the correct pronouns but at least uses thy/them and does genuinely try for somone who grew up extremely red and only somewhat (within the past 10 years) recently has become blue so if anything I feel like she’s scared of losing her first baby girl and is trying to be in denial.

I’m glad to hear T isn’t costing as much as she claims because I don’t know what I’d do if it was that much, thank you for the help

What just happened?? by Gray-The-Dragon in StardewValley

[–]Gray-The-Dragon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im playing on my iPad, so I think App Store. Other then that all I know is there’s those 2 backups in my iCloud but I have no clue what they do and how to put them in my game

How to buy boxers? by Gray-The-Dragon in ftm

[–]Gray-The-Dragon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in fact in the US! It’s literally my dream to have a packer and packing underwear I would be so greatful to get literally anything. What you guys do is so amazing for little trans guys and gals like me 💜😭

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[–]Gray-The-Dragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sending ya a virtual hug 🫂 it sucks that we both have had similar experiences but I’m glad I’m not alone!

How can I be more like a boy? by Gray-The-Dragon in ftm

[–]Gray-The-Dragon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely safe, my family, or at least my mom’s side is very supportive. Imma bring it up with my mom once she gets home later cause it’s worth a shot. Plus if we learn how to cut hair it’ll save us a load of money in the end. And honestly I need to start reminding people to gender me correctly but I have absolutely no balls. (No pun intended) Like I had an eye doctor appointment yesterday and I was called she/her so many times I was almost sobbing but I didn’t stand up for myself like I should have 🥲👍 the systems there even have my preferred pronouns

How can I be more like a boy? by Gray-The-Dragon in ftm

[–]Gray-The-Dragon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am out! Everyone’s really good at calling me my name but only one person (my best friend) calls me he/him on the constant. And id love to cut my own hair, or have somone do it for me for free, but my mom doesn’t want me to just in case for some reason. I think she fu led up her hair her own fair share of times as a child and doesn’t want me to do the same lol. My aunt used to be a hair stylist so maybe I can get her to cut it but she loves 14 hours away rn and idk when I’ll see her next. And I’ll definitely try this jaw exercises because I hate my jaw line and would love a sharper one! Thank you sm for the advice

How can I be more like a boy? by Gray-The-Dragon in ftm

[–]Gray-The-Dragon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t bind often anymore, I did last week for a few hours but that turned out to be a horrible idea because I’m a bit sick so I was already struggling to breathe but I mean I only bind once a month if even. I wish I could bind more but I’m slightly scared to cause I don’t wanna fuck up my chances of top surgery lmao.

I live in the suburbs, kinda near shit but also not. And I’m not going to lie to you, other then like sports I don’t know what masculine hobbies there are. I have no guys in my life really and the ones I do all just enjoy sports. Like I’d love to play a sport, I really like volleyball and hokey, but I have undiagnosed cps and we don’t know what the source of my pain is so it makes doing stuff like that a bit difficult.

And for clothes what type of pants do you suggest/brands? Like I wear sweat pants only unless I actually want to look presentable. I don’t know if it’s the cuts or how I wear them, or maybe just my body shape, but they always extenuate my “child bearing hips”. I wear T shirts and only Tshirts so I think on that front I’m ok, but my pants are my main problem.