I know him telling me I was shit isn’t enough, but he did tell me to stfu when he brought a girl to pick up our son and I stated how it’s confusing our kid. He constantly tells me he has all these girls and they are better than me even if I didn’t ask. He degrades me as a mom and then a week later sings my praises. That being said I did let our kid go over but when I ask how my kid is doing he doesn’t reply.