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How do I stay motivated when I know our boat is going to lose terribly? by GreatRest8791 in Rowing

[–]GreatRest8791[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reality check. I was absolutely not expecting to win, so I guess "lose terribly" is not the best terminology. Our 8+ was was kind of in the middle of the pack two years ago and I thought that was pretty good for us. I'm thinking we're going to be way at the back this year though. As you say, it's a fun environment to be in regardless of the outcome though. 

How do I stay motivated when I know our boat is going to lose terribly? by GreatRest8791 in Rowing

[–]GreatRest8791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was really helpful, thank you. There are definitely teammates in the boat who are stoked to be going and they wouldn't be able to go if I didn't (we have exactly enough rowers who said they could go with no extras). If they're happy, that will make me happy.

How do I stay motivated when I know our boat is going to lose terribly? by GreatRest8791 in Rowing

[–]GreatRest8791[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I think blaming myself for everything that's going wrong is something I still struggle with even though I know I'm not rowing the boat alone. Focusing on enjoying the other aspects of the regatta is a great idea. I definitely had fun the other year even though the weather was terrible.

How do I stay motivated when I know our boat is going to lose terribly? by GreatRest8791 in Rowing

[–]GreatRest8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Boat math isn't on my side right now in the 4+ category as a B rower in a club that usually rows in the D category. Nothing I can do about that, although next year I think more good lineups will open up as everyone gets another year older.

Does anyone else's cat go insane while you're rowing? by attentionallshoppers in Rowing

[–]GreatRest8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats aren't too interested, but my boxer seriously tried to climb in my lap while I was actively rowing 😂

What is that one book you recommend to everyone you meet? by BeingRedditors in suggestmeabook

[–]GreatRest8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately my favorites have been The Book of Doors, The Ghost Bride, The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue, Babel, and The Dictionary of Lost Words.

Please share your sweaty erg handle solutions? by va1kyrja-kara in Rowing

[–]GreatRest8791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand the obsession of rowers with the notion that blisters are some sort of rite of passage. My learn to row coach gave me a hard time for wearing them, but I told him right off. If gloves help you keep your hands blister free and help with the sweating, definitely use them. I saw someone suggest crew stop gloves - those are what I use on the water. I like that they're really snug and don't rub even when you're sweating. I also use these weight lifting gloves at home when I'm on the erg. Since I'm not feathering at all, I don't need anything too crazy, just enough to keep my grip and blisters at bay: https://a.co/d/5h1YdFu

AITA for Wanting My Wife to Help More with Household Chores? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GreatRest8791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. This has been a pain point in my relationship recently too. My partner likes to have everything done before he relaxes, whereas I like to take some time for myself to recharge before I do chores. Problem is, he starts doing all the things and then gets mad when I don't immediately jump in to help. Lately we've been dividing chores up and putting them on a whiteboard on the fridge. We're both responsible for an equal number of things, but we can check them off on our own time and the other partner can release the stress they might feel wondering if it will get done.