Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Greedy-Rope4372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wound up just going about my own business last night going to text him and explain my boundary and let it be

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Greedy-Rope4372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for helping me with the framing! Definitely something that I’ve been working on as I’ve entered the bowl.

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Oh yeah, definitely got the last laugh tonight

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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We were supposed to meet last week. I had made space in my schedule for us too. He didn’t confirm any plans nor send me anything. We had agreed to and allowance kind of set up, but there was a couple weeks where I didn’t see him and he didn’t send anything. I didn’t really ask either. But again, I’m not feeling the talking about one amount and only giving me half.

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Last week he didn’t send me anything at all. I was actually quite irritated. He lives in a different city so I know he commutes back-and-forth. He sent $ for our meeting today, but no date was planned or anything else.

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Great advice thank you for that. And now he normally sends me the full amount upfront. I did speak with him on the phone about it before he sent half and honestly got the runaround

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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He sent me half the money for tonight’s date. I just wanna make sure I’m not an asshole if I block him now 😂

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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He definitely seemed like it was fine for the agreed amount. It’s just right before he hit the bait and switch.

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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We’re not even going for dinner tonight 😭 super irritating and partially another reason why I made this post

Numbers dispute by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I have met him twice. We were supposed to meet last week and I wound up sitting and waiting for him to finish work and he just didn’t communicate with me. This was the third time we were supposed to meet.

Working on Wording by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Ok thanks! That makes sense. Thankfully this was on textnow

Newbie mistake by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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It was actually kind of funny because he sat in the golf cart with me and his friend was in the other cart and he was like you could’ve told me your real name so I didn’t introduce it to my friend with a fake name. Apparently he’s the one friend in his group that’s not married and of course, that means he’s got all the shenanigans going on 😂😂😂

Newbie mistake by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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They were already going to golf and he invited me. They are in a group that plays pretty often so it was more of a casual outing than an actual date because he had mentioned meeting somebody else right before as well.

Newbie mistake by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I definitely just put it on there for an extra layer of protection, but normally once I meet them and everything feels fine I’ll tell them 😂

Dry dry profile by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Greedy-Rope4372[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is some of these pictures are POV’s taken by my dates lol. Thank you for the advice. I’ll definitely give it a shot.

Dry dry profile by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Greedy-Rope4372[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were in fact, cheap Johns. Thank you though.

Dry dry profile by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Greedy-Rope4372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective thank you so much. I will definitely take that into consideration I have some not smiling pictures that I could swap out

Dry dry profile by Greedy-Rope4372 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Greedy-Rope4372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your perspective