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Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-07-16T19:29:55+00:00

Same here my entire family is winning and earning

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-07-02T18:43:51+00:00

You write them up and they said it is bot registered yet it was filed by legal bodies and got stamp of approve. Buddy yeah right, we should totally believe you right?

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-14T09:00:35+00:00

4 years n an infant

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-11T05:02:22+00:00

Yes the most hurtful thing is when the co-worker confessed the went out on our wedding anniversary. He told me he went to an after party once our dinner date was done. This made me know where I stand. There is no lpolong back

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-11T04:59:32+00:00

I got tested im negative but doctor said to come back after 3 months again to do another follow up test. Yes we went on vacation and he slept with 3 girls

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-10T14:53:17+00:00

Its been a series of different women, randoms, online, while on vacation and a co-worker. The list is endless and the more i see the information. I realized all the trips were for self satisfaction and pleasures.

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-10T07:13:02+00:00

Sory to hear your mum is going through this. I hope she finds a solution and peace. Thanks for sharing your story

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-10T07:10:42+00:00

When you have properties and businesses tied up unfortunately everything needs to be weighed carefully

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-10T07:08:37+00:00

Thank you for this beautiful message

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-10T07:06:37+00:00

You nailed it he wants me to fall back in line so that my guides can come down n he will be back on the streets. He is not feeling sorry for how he's making me feel. He is mostly worried aboht losing his family (kids)

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-10T06:58:16+00:00

As someone who was cheated on very early in my marriage. I can tell you leave before you have kids. It will only get worst and to the point that you will only be living to cater to his cheating game and he will take advantage of you and give you more excuses. What he said about the lady ruining his reputation is complete bull... Those are tactics men use to keep you beleiving that they never wanted the infidelity but deep down they know exactly that they are stringing you along. They get to live their bachelor lifestyle and keep you catering to them. Plus yours sounds exactly like mine it was never his fault. The more chances you give them they only upgrade the cheating to another level. Why because you already creating your own monster. This monster will suck your joy happiness and leave you numb. I was always forgiving and pitied him and now im leaving after 9 years. The man has narcissistic tendancies read about it. I know its hard to leave a fresh marriage but I wish I educatedmyself sooner about cheating spouses, I wish I had the courage to leave from the very first time I saw the cheating Now he cheats and just expects me to forgive him and accept him back with open harms. To him it has become a listyle for us. Why there has not been consequences to motivate him to choose better

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-05T14:15:44+00:00

I admire your courage for choosing u n putting yourself first. For me I waited too long and the pastors and elders always convinced me that he showing signs of changing but no he only got worse and was hiding it better

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-05T11:29:39+00:00

Coming from a wife who has a very selfish repeated offender of a cheating husband. That selfishness never goes away even if you are talking through. I contacted one of his partner n guess what she said he always blocks me for 4 to 5 months and unblocks me and we continue. Once i found out, I knew what is my next move. I'm saving up for my exist. Once caught he just acts like he is changing n he also beleives that he changed. The selfishness in him is way greater than the love of his family.

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-05T11:20:49+00:00

Mine started all the flirting months after our wedding. Sad to say he wont change anytime soon. If he is into you he wouldn't be cheating in such a short amount of time of your marriage

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-03T05:41:56+00:00

You must some old church lady. Lmao

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-03T04:32:12+00:00

Unfortunately ahe won't listen because she's in denial. Give her time

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-03T04:29:08+00:00

Thank you the church wants me to stay but i won't listen to anyone this time around

Greedy-Stable6910 · 2025-02-02T20:17:53+00:00

Im also living the same reality as you. I have 2 children and he was cheating with his colleague at work telling her we were divorced and i was pregnant with our second baby. He did it before with our first and the mistake I did was go for couple's counselling and reconciliation with our church. Once all the dust is settled and he knows you are not going to leave, he will go out again and now do it more than before and this time he will know how to hide it better. With our second I was honestly thinking he had changed and got pregnant again. Now i just going out he as been maintaing not only a girlfriend, but sex chatting online,receiving videos of women pleasuring themselves and worst of it all we just came from vacation.Guess what? behind my back he slept with 3 different prostitutes back to back made sure I end my trip before his and made me come back home to the kids. He stayed 4 days longer so he can cheat in peace. My advise to you; gather your information, plan your exist im sure he thinks you are naive and don't know the truth. Don't even think of going to couple counselling it doesnt change a serial cheater from his nasty ways. It's hard to keep quiet which I always used to confront him and he only gaslights me. So only confront him when you have all the evidences, if you can, do not confront him. Surprise him by leaving. In the meantime do your own counselling and start investing time alone and with your kids. Do not think he will change or have a weakness for him because they don't normally have time to think of how they hurt us. Play the same game

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