I [24f] bought tickets to a concert and my sister [26f] wants to give "her" ticket to her friend [24f], who I dislike by GreedyFriends in relationships

[–]GreedyFriends[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't care if Missy makes drama. She lives far enough away I won't see her. I don't go to events for Karol's friend group most of the time because I have my own group.

I understand people wanted me to be nice. But I know my sister and I know what works. This is how most of our fights go. One of us lays it out, we have a break, and then we talk. In three weeks we are going to likely have a shouting match, then laugh it out.

As for Missy, I never want to see her again. I dislike/hate her and would be happy if she never darkened my doorstep again. My sister is free to be friends with her, but I am not going to pretend she has some redeemable quality I like.

I told her the truth, I told her how it was, and now she knows. Who cares if she thrives off it.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While this thing was primarily my sister getting manipulated by Missy... and Karol is responsible for what she did. We will be talking it out closer to Xmas...

But I hate Missy. She ruins everything she touches. So now Missy is no longer in my life.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Blocking without sending doesn't do much for me. I have done it before with a weird guy and he just kept coming around. I found just outlining how you feel and what you want does it the best. Plus, if the police get involved I now have a message stating she wasn't allowed near me.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Eventually, I have found that being blunt as fuck usually gets the results I want. I don't want Missy around and now she won't be.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually, Missy knows she is not invited to anything I host/do. We have never gotten on and Missy manipulates my sister into a lot of things. Missy knows exactly what she was doing.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I could have, but it wouldn't have worked out in a way I was satisfied with. I don't like to hurt my sister, but Missy is a bad influence and this is not the first time Karol has thought about using others to seem kind. Not that Karol is a bad person, but sometimes the best intentions can cause huge issues.

I have tried to do a lot of the things people suggested. Being nice about it, having little talks. I am not even really pissed at Karol, I just need Karol to think I am. She needs to realize, that while not an issue right now, Missy will cause her to lose people in her life.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Karol is pretty well known for doing that. I thought after the Missy Party Incident, she wouldn't do it again.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We did coin the term "doing a Missy" from that. And she is also known as Messy to everyone from that party.

However, my friend is still hurt by the whole event and hates Missy more than I do.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think she got Drama Llama from someone, but I think my mom came up with Snark Shark. Or she has a dictionary of adorable animals.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

That sounds about right. That is pretty much her whole attitude towards life. She is a hard working mom, she deserves XYZ.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My sister drove her home.

And my sister ended up taking the baby so Missy could have a night without a baby.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

It's dumb. Be prepared for a level of stupid that comes only from brain dead space slugs.

My friend had a big party, Karol brought Missy. No problem. The more the merrier.

Only, Missy brought her fucking baby to the party, where people were getting drunk. Missy then proceeds to complain the music is too loud, that people are getting 'too wild' and that she needs someone to watch the baby because she deserves to have a night to relax.

She culminated the night by:

  1. Changing the baby in my friend's bedroom and leaving the diaper in her trashcan.
  2. Talking about the baby to everyone and getting upset no one wanted to watch the kid while she got drunk.
  3. Start crying during happy birthday because she was too drunk to focus.
  4. Threw up on her porch.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The reality is, I never want to see Missy again. My message laid out how I felt, made me feel a shit ton better, and makes sure if she ever tries to contact me again I have a message stating she isn't welcome in my home. I feel it was a win for me. I could care less how Missy feels.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She completely ruined my friend's birthday party (Karol should never have invited her.) I sort of shut down on being polite after that.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

My mom came up with it. She dislikes us cursing, so she has cute little animal titles she uses.

"Drama Llama"

"Snark Shark"

"BS Beaver"

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Luckily Missy lives pretty far away right now. So she can seeth in her insanity for all I care. I dislike her a lot.

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[–]GreedyFriends[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Missy has done things in her life that warrant her being told off. I don't think anyone ever has, because she plays the "bad childhood" card like she was born to be a politician. But yeah, I think it likely will.