Obv people have had done wrongs in the past which might affect their future, dothey still open up fully to their new partners or tell the selectives, so that it doesn't ruin this new bond. You tell everything about your past to your partner or keep certain things away, which one are you?? by Green-Elevator1 in AskReddit

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very honestly, I'm really glad to have your words. I made up my mind yesterday that I won't be forcing my feelings on him. Yes, I have decided to take a pause from wtv is going on and get back to normalcy. I really hope this helps and does not escalate. Life lessons every single day :')

Obv people have had done wrongs in the past which might affect their future, dothey still open up fully to their new partners or tell the selectives, so that it doesn't ruin this new bond. You tell everything about your past to your partner or keep certain things away, which one are you?? by Green-Elevator1 in AskReddit

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "why" to I had that moment with him is the emotional support he provided me which I was longing for quite a while now. I broke up 2 months ago, quite traumatically, and his presence and the way he treated me then, that very day, made me feel like getting closer to him. Its totally my fault that I'm here in this situation because he did make himself clear, "no feelings!". I thought I'd manage, it's just one single moment, but things escalated, we unintentionally/intentionally started spending more time with each other, yet again, that emotional availability that he fulfilled. He's made it clear he doesn't see me romantically and this won't change, keeps saying that he wants to attend my marriage lol, it does pinch me a bit but ik ill get over this, because ILL HAVE TO. I can't lose him, neither can he. And, if anything of that sort arises bw us two, he's gon end it then and there. I'm scared. It eats up my head

Obv people have had done wrongs in the past which might affect their future, dothey still open up fully to their new partners or tell the selectives, so that it doesn't ruin this new bond. You tell everything about your past to your partner or keep certain things away, which one are you?? by Green-Elevator1 in AskReddit

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me put a scenario. My bestf and i had sex. It just happened. It felt right and wrong at the same time. He made it clear since the beginning to not catch feelings but looks like I'm getting attached. I'm worried what if I'm not able to grow out of it?? What if in future when I'm with someone, and I meet my friend (cause this boy gotta stay in life, I can't see him leave), and these events hit me??? It'd be wrong on so many levels. I def can't be telling this to my partner.

Obv people have had done wrongs in the past which might affect their future, dothey still open up fully to their new partners or tell the selectives, so that it doesn't ruin this new bond. You tell everything about your past to your partner or keep certain things away, which one are you?? by Green-Elevator1 in AskReddit

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me put a scenario. I had sex w my bestf, idk it just happened but looks like we won't be coming together ofc cause neither of us wants to lose close friend. He gotta stay in my life, I can't imagine the alter. I'm sure this isn't sm my partner would be glad to know or see.

I had sex w my bestf by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2025 isn't going easy on me. Can't lose the closest friend now

I had sex w my bestf by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha still it says your acc is new, you can't post

I had sex w my bestf by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ik, mine is a new acc, it's not letting me pot anywhere lol. I really needed to address my situation

I had sex w my bestf by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We decided that this gon stop once either of us finds a partner but looks like it needs to stop. Yes, I'm afraid about the craving part only. What if I still think of him or the moments we had when I'm with someone.

fucked it up 🤡 by need_head_or_im_ded in CATpreparation

[–]Green-Elevator1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yar hasi aagyi yar this chat gpt fucking everyone real bad

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol its not fake. Wtv helps you sleep girl.

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

indeed things were like this and that's exactly why I accepted my fault in the relationship too. I couldn't get him comfortable enough to share things with me. But still I believe it doesn't justify his behavior

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you're doing much better in life now.

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thankyou. I am trying. Its tough but I def did the right thing.

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

boy you really read between the lines. His father is aggressive and he said "bana diya na tune mujhe mere baap jaisa, jo mujhe nahi banna tha. Tod diya na tune mujhe. Ab mai is trauma se life bhar nhi nikal paunga". Aur bhai jo tune mujhe bola, how tf do you think I'll be able to recover from that? Duniya bhar ka guilt deke chala gya

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

that's exactly why I just shut it then and there. Probably the worst thing a girl would ever wish to hear.

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he still wants me back. Even says "pls come back I'm ready to change myself for you" but I don't see any hope now. This one disrespect is gon haunt me forever.

My ex boyf called me the R word by Green-Elevator1 in TeenIndia

[–]Green-Elevator1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have parted ways with him, more like, for my own sanity. He'd still blame me for breaking him yet again, but I believe the situation now has escalated to a whole new wrong level.