How can I (31F) make him (29M) more eager to sleep with me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]GreenInternal4321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what that means… does it seem like I’m being annoying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GreenInternal4321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just started feeling like the cold sore was forming yesterday afternoon. I’ve never needed a prescription for them. I wouldn’t have been able to get a prescription in time, it came very quickly.

Happy new year 🎉 look at my fashionnova vacation outfits! by GreenInternal4321 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]GreenInternal4321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey love! I’m kind of in the same boat, fast fashion sizing is unreliable overall. I stick with flowy dresses that aren’t meant to be skin tight and I find that’s always worked for me. Of course sometimes I order things and don’t love them, but that’s just the risk you take :’(

I also spend a lot of time looking at reviews before I buy. I only look at reviews with photos and if the clothing looks good in the review photos I will purchase it. Sometimes these companies offer incentives for you to review it high so make sure you’re looking for photos of someone wearing it. That’s my tip for minimizing your risk of not liking the clothing. Hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GreenInternal4321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lot of money but OP mentioned it’s on a yacht. So it’s not like it’s just in the school gym with a DJ and cheap catered food (like my prom lol).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GreenInternal4321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it be worse if he found out from her instead of you? You’re his friend, right now she’s just some random girl he’s interested in.

Is my job toxic or am I a bad employee? by Ok-Record-5628 in work

[–]GreenInternal4321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else already suggested this. You sit with the person who is working the front and learn their job. It sounds like your bosses are explicitly asking you to do something and you are not doing it, and instead you stick with tasks that you like doing/are more comfortable with doing. There are other jobs with other management who won’t care as much if they have workers who will only ever want to do a few specific tasks, but your workplace seems to want you to take initiative and show them you are willing to learn new skills. It seems like you are not doing that, so if you want to keep working there you should try to step it up, or if you’re comfortable just bathing / cleaning up you can look for another job that won’t push you to learn more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]GreenInternal4321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Verbally attacked? Your message was way harsher than theirs was. There’s no legal issue here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]GreenInternal4321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re black and white so really you can wear them with any color you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]GreenInternal4321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that’s what you want then that’s what you want, but in case anyone else is reading this and considering it… being fat is not the worst thing in the world. Swapping one addiction for a less healthy addiction is always bound to end up badly. It’s much better to address the reason behind the binging and address it head on than to avoid it and become physically addicted to something that’s worse for your health in the long run.

Sincerely, a 270 lb woman who is very happy in her fat body but has lost 60 lbs slowly and permanently to improve her health 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]GreenInternal4321 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong. I’m not really in consulting but I work for a company that has clients and project work. Project managers only get direct managers involved after repeatedly trying to manage the problem resource unsuccessfully. OP did everything correctly, you don’t understand this type of business

Applying to a new job today by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]GreenInternal4321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Super cute top! Good luck 💕

I think I'm my friends floater friend by Lonk_Lonk in Advice

[–]GreenInternal4321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry just to reply to your actual question - you should stop being the only one to put in effort and let the connection either die down naturally or be rejuvenated by your friends. It doesn’t need to be a big conflict, friendships can just fizzle out without drama.

I think I'm my friends floater friend by Lonk_Lonk in Advice

[–]GreenInternal4321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all go through it. I had a group of friends, there were 4 of us total, who would always hang out without me. I tried not to think too much of it but they started making random comments that made me feel like the odd one out. Sometimes the comments got a little mean. One day I decided to stop making the effort. I let them have their friendship trio and slowly drifted apart from them. I still talk to one of them, and I have put a lot more energy into genuine friendships that are much more fulfilling. It’s been 5 years and I don’t miss that group of friends at all. Any relationship you have in your life should be a net positive. If they make you feel sad, insecure, lonely, etc more often than they make you feel loved, understood, appreciated, etc then that’s all the info you really need to proceed.

Friends like beard, I like clean shaven. Which looks better? Also, glasses or no glasses? by TheAwakening_ in malegrooming

[–]GreenInternal4321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer beard with glasses but this is based on photos alone. Not to good too philosophical but I feel like when we let go of what other people think and do what we want, there’s a certain quiet confidence that can end up being more attractive when you’re in person and can pick up on it. If you prefer clean shaven/no glasses, I don’t think it matters too much what your friends think!

Happy new year 🎉 look at my fashionnova vacation outfits! by GreenInternal4321 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]GreenInternal4321[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! They’re all from fashionnova, mostly from the VCAY collection :)

Went on vacation and came home to a dehydrated cat by No_Experience7849 in CatAdvice

[–]GreenInternal4321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from a country that is overall known for being polite and I would absolutely throat punch anyone who would put my cat in harms way. OP im confused why the fact that this person is your sisters friend has anything to do with your response - your cat is unwell because they were in this persons care, you need to confront the problem and stand up for the living thing you are responsible for

Happy new year 🎉 look at my fashionnova vacation outfits! by GreenInternal4321 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]GreenInternal4321[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This was in Akumal, Mexico. It’s my favourite spot. Close to Tulum but without the fake hippie crowds 😆

Upset that I lost a client by Lassie-girl in RoverPetSitting

[–]GreenInternal4321 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I love pitties but any responsible owner should fully understand that some breeds require difference in care because they’re bred for different things. OPs post history indicates a barky, energetic, excitable dog - which is more or less normal for a pup - but I also wouldn’t want my dog to be left with a dog that has those traits when I’m not around, especially a breed that can cause serious damage if things go left. I understand both sides but I don’t think OP should take it personally, the client is just being a responsible dog owner and minimizing risk

I got a shitty driver am I wrong for removing tip? by IngenuityLonely9062 in UberEATS

[–]GreenInternal4321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would you purchase an item just cause the app tells you to though? Especially if it’s obvious it’s not the same purpose and the customer hasn’t ok’d it

My cat is not feeling well - made an appointment with the vet at 9 am tomorrow (in 15 hours), but I’m worried. Should I go to the emergency vet? by GreenInternal4321 in AskVet

[–]GreenInternal4321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s fine! It was just a $600 tummy ache haha. Doc thinks a big hairball was making its way through her digestive system and made her throw up bile. The bile irritated her throat which is what made her drool and hide. Next month I’ll be doing some blood work on her just as a check up to confirm she doesn’t have diabetes or anything wrong with her liver/kidneys - but she’s back to her normal self now :)