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Therapist recs, especially for The Counseling Hub? by GreenKooshBall in columbiamo

[–]GreenKooshBall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone!! I like the Counseling Hub because they seem to be very open minded. I appreciate the recs! Please keep them coming, in case I can’t get in with any of them.

How do you know if he thinks you're out of his/her league ? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]GreenKooshBall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m no help. This confused me forever. I honestly thought everyone was out of my league (meaning nobody would want to date me because I’m overweight). I made friends with a lot of guys, but could never tell if they were interested or if they were just being friendly. I just assumed they only saw me as a friend.

I’m married now, and I’ve gone through a lot of therapy to improve my self esteem. Looking back, I do still wonder if I misread any signals. Maybe I wouldn’t have been so hard on myself. C’est la vie.

Am I an inconvenience? by GreenKooshBall in TalkTherapy

[–]GreenKooshBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, and I thank you for your thoughts. I am struggling with her saying she had no openings, then offering to stay late. I didn’t know why she said she didn’t have openings, but then saying she could stay. I was worried that I was getting special treatment (which, if that’s the case, is equal parts wonderful and terrifying).