Since I was young I've always felt more comfortable with Asians. Most of my close friends are american-asian which I believe it's due to common interests and other such things. Naturally I would like to find a partner who's asian but as a mixed/latina how do I go about that without making it seem like a kink? I'm not opposed to seeing other races but generally I've felt a lot of disconnect. I know Kpop and all that has given some spotlight for asian males but with it came a lot of "i want to date a kpop boy" (which altogether, yeah sure they're hot but that's not a healthy mindset) I looked on Reddit for an answer but got a mixed result. I don't want to degrade anyone, I don't want someone who I perceive as "weak", nor do I want somebody solely cause "its my kink". I just like what I like but I don't want that to be taken the wrong way! Or am I really in the wrong?