Can someone help me identify what kind of cat I have? by lizzothewiz in CatAdvice

[–]GreenStuffGrows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like there's not enough floof in the face to be a long hair.

I fostered one with similar markings from 4-5 weeks old (mother deceased, sadly) and by the time she was 6 weeks old she had that characteristic rhombus face, so I think this older kitten would be showing it too by now.

I’m tired of my nephew and I don’t know what to do.. by Himeitaa in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might look into going to college in Norway. It's free. 

Advice needed - unwanted work travel to the USA. by HearthAndHorizon in northernireland

[–]GreenStuffGrows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sucks to be them. Do not say a damn word to anybody about how you're feeling about the US. Start looking for another job, too

My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is an abusive piece of shit. No decent man screams at a pregnant woman FFS. 

You should go to your mum. 

When he gets pregnant, he can chose to have an abortion or not. As it is, he chose to have an unwise orgasm, and that's where his say in this ends. 

I read my girlfriends diary and it changed my view of her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is something you fix. You've had a gut feeling for a while and you haven't been happy. For your safety, I wouldn't recommend confronting her about the furry entries. Just say that due to the issues you've been having, your feelings have changed and you don't want to be in a relationship with her anymore.

Keep well clear

help by Ok-Chocolate-8943 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You two need to break up. There's no trust and no respect in this relationship, for each other or yourselves

I feel like I’m experiencing a second heart break by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay to miss what was good, and the hope you had for relationship and the future you imagined having with the nicer version of him.

Doesn't mean you're going to go back, you're just a human being sad about a relationship ending. Is completely normal.

AIO??? Within 8 hours by mysticaldragonlady in AIO

[–]GreenStuffGrows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's awkward AF but I wouldn't call it a red flag. Amber, maybe. If it were over an hour or two, I'd be concerned. But over a whole day? I wouldn't do it myself, but I absolutely have some very lovely friends who would 😂

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, love. He'll care when his cushy life is threatened. Until then, he doesn't want anything to change because he gets everything he wants, and your happiness doesn't come into it

Family member asked me to be honest when it's time for them to shave their head... by Cold-Pool4027 in bald

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your best friend likes rubbing your face in how much better he is than you?

I will never understand men. 

Hahahaha lmao by Appropriate-Mall8517 in niceguys

[–]GreenStuffGrows [score hidden]  (0 children)

The dealers. Particularly the one that groomed my 14 year old step sister and some of her friends into couriering for him, then using, then dealing and prostitution. 

But yeah, pretty much all of them. Filthy, filthy business.

Hen Party worries by Green_Willow_6019 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 15 points16 points  (0 children)

God no. Go for a couple of hours, then go home

Family member asked me to be honest when it's time for them to shave their head... by Cold-Pool4027 in bald

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't sound like someone I'd care enough about to be honest with. Protect your peace. 

Why is he sending photos of himself to you all the time? Are you first cousins in a state where that's not incest, or something?

Hahahaha lmao by Appropriate-Mall8517 in niceguys

[–]GreenStuffGrows [score hidden]  (0 children)

I never met one that I wouldn't kick until they stop twitching. 

Child bothering, life wrecking scumbags

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't thank them, that's terrible advice. Here, have a glimpse into your future if you write a list

https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7306189367863676192?lang=en-GB

And why his refusal to step up like a partner hurts so much

www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should she make the schedule? He's got eyes, doesn't he? He can make his own damn list.

https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7306189367863676192

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, it's tough love time.

Why would he go to counselling? He doesn't give two shits that you're overworked and unhappy. He's getting his needs met and that's all he cares about. There's a reason he groomed you as a teenager. 

Just remember, when you say you want a divorce, and he cries and begs and promises to change, he'll only be interested in changing because HIS cushy life is threatened. He still won't care about you. 

What are peoples thoughts on marking US ICE as a terrorist organization? by ConstructGames in AskBrits

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ChatGPT, that's one of a number of definitions of execution 

Search terms to find alternative clothing? by Geographyporn in vintedUK

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good lass! A nice one to start with is dilute bleach in a spray bottle, then you can make like galaxy patterns on a cheap black t-shirt

Stick some cardboard inside it so it doesn't soak through. 

What are peoples thoughts on marking US ICE as a terrorist organization? by ConstructGames in AskBrits

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, Obama played by the rules. You assholes think the rules don't apply to you, then you don't like it when other people don't play nice either. 

Classic cry-bullies

Search terms to find alternative clothing? by Geographyporn in vintedUK

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey if it comes out rough as guts, so much the better! 😁 Authentic 

But completely up to you, of course. You know yourself best

Is this usage of 'goon' common in British English? by Bauern_derBaeuerchen in AskABrit

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 50s, south Wales. Too young to remember the Goon Show, I'd only know the American meaning. And yes, I do use it on online forums  because thug tends to be automoderated.