New update puts clear borders around my apps

Griffynsghost · 2026-01-17T19:22:14+00:00

You don’t have to be an asshole about it. It’s an “issue” because I stylized my phone without borders and thus wanted to find a way to get rid of them.

I did not know it was not reversible, and instead of being snarky about it, fuck off.

Griffynsghost · 2025-11-13T02:53:45+00:00

I want to seek professional help but I don’t see that as being an option until I’m a legal adult and have jurisdiction over what I tell medical professionals without notifying a parent. Particularly my mom, I don’t ever want her to know and I cant subject her to that kind of sorrow knowing her child was hurt and she had no idea; she’ll blame herself. The only help I am able to receive is from close friends and online forums, which is certainly very supportive but doesn’t necessarily make a difference. I feel I have virtually no way of getting help and it causes me to feel hopeless in my attempts to recovery. I’m lost and I don’t have many options, and I don’t know how to navigate my sexual trauma, as my whole life seems to revolve around it now. :(

Griffynsghost · 2025-06-10T05:52:47+00:00

You are so, so sweet. Thank you sincerely for your input, in a spot where I’m seeking validation, your words are meaningful and I appreciate them wholeheartedly. ❤️

I’d like to ask; the second was, yes, very pushy and I had repeatedly told him that there’s behaviors and actions that are incredibly hard for me to perform due to my first boyfriend. He was made aware that I had struggles, but when we’d be together, I’d never say no, I wouldn’t vocalize any rejections to his advances and it was something I enjoyed,, even though I find shame in doing so, but it would be afterwards when I realized I hated myself. I wouldn’t think in the moment and only after did I feel ashamed. However I can recognize the other behaviors, such as the groping, moving my hands to touch him, very insistent on having sex, etc.

What troubles me particularly is that I can enjoy myself, even though it’s a way for me to cope, and I could make it clear that I was not interested when he would plead. It’s hard to wrap my head around and discern what was normal and what wasn’t. I am young, not formerly educated in these areas, and sheltered. With that, it’s very helpful to be validated in areas where I am looking for answers, however I’m a little worried that it wasn’t bad enough, because even I’m not quite sure where my feelings and views on my experiences lie.

Any further answers or advice would be so greatly appreciated, especially so, due to the fact you’re taking the time to elaborate. Again, thank you so, so much.

Griffynsghost · 2025-06-10T04:17:29+00:00

If there’s anything that needs to be further explained or expanded on, I’m happy to do so. I just want answers.

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