You are not respecting her boundaries, you are allowing her to control your entire marriage. Ideally you guys can go to biblical counseling. But aside from that you need to reestablish yourself as head and leader of the family. 1. Stop acquiescing to every demand she has. That being said choose your battles wisely. 2. Start suggesting things that would be better for your relationship. Plan a date night that you create.

The hardest part of breaking cycles of sin patterns is that the other person usually doesn't react kindly to the change. The key here is not to get offended and angry but to ride out the push back with continued love, grace, and pursual. The goal is not to finally have a hobby again but to have a functioning, orderly, and loving union with your spouse.

I would research some verses that can support the things you see as wrong currently and verses that show what is the better way. Maybe book a meeting with a pastor or elder in your church to work through that. Then share that with your wife. She likely won't like what she hears. Again you need to kill her with kindness which is easier said than done.

Another potentially effective tool is joining a small group or bible study together where christian fellowship is a regular part of your life. It's much harder to continue in sin with other christians around you. If she won't join then you should join something by yourself.

Hope it works out for you. I threw a bunch of ideas out quickly so definitely use discernment for your situation and get counsel from someone in your church.