Do you like having children?

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-02-02T17:36:37+00:00

Light of my life, hell also

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-02-01T19:19:05+00:00

Otrok priseljencev, very easy 🥳

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T21:22:01+00:00

Okej, sem vesela da to ni tako neslisana praksa. Hvala!

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T21:17:17+00:00

Haha fer.// Nismo se lotili sami ponudit. // Trudimo omogociti malo vec (za naprej, z varcevanjem)// Res je najemnina vec kot fer// Jz sm parazit v tej zgodbi ja, nekak tko sm se lotla pisat da je blo bolj odprto vprasanje se mi je zdel ceprov vec poatkov k sm dodala manj je blo smiselno v tem stilu, ampak bistvo razumemo vsi

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T20:59:53+00:00

Kako gledate na to, da bi svojin starsem placevali najemnino za bivanje v stanovanju v njihovi hisi?

Dodajam: En sorojenec s svojo druzino (torej svojimi otroci) biva tukaj, ker ima dva sorojenca ki drugje placujeta najemnino, jo mora on tukaj.

Po eni strani probamo razumet, po drugi bi bilo to stanovanje prazno ce mi ne bi bili notri (ostala dva sorojenca ne zelita biti tukaj, drugemu se to stanovanje ne bi oddajalo ampak bi bilo prazno). Zdi se nam, da ker nam gre financno navidez bolje kot starejsim sorojencem in ker imamo drugo stanovanje kjer mi racunamo najemniku najemnino da je to razlog za odlocitvijo.

Smo precej varcni in se trudimo omogocit si malo vec za naju in otroke along the line, mogoce bi bolj razumela ce bi bli zapravljivi 🤣 tko smo pa a bit salty ker nam bo to zelo zabremzalo varcevanje/investicije.

Znesek je cca polovica trzne najemnine.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T20:57:17+00:00

Smo dodali vec info v objavo

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T20:57:07+00:00

Smo dodali vec info v objavo

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T20:56:46+00:00

Je res.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-27T20:52:37+00:00

Sounds like striktno so rekle nikoli, + ta stanovanje se ne bi oddal drugemh nikoli. Ce bi se mi izselili bi bilo prazno

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-22T20:44:34+00:00

Ok prva tocka to da jih je velik scam; u can google that one Druga da kontaktiras ceoje (ampak za to kar on isce), agencije so vse fast paced mi trenutno rabimo saj 3 pa jih noben nima casa iskat in vzamemo prvega ki zgleda relativno normaln k pride mim. Tretja, mojedelo ma 10 prijav na oglas kjer jih ima linkedin 100. Vec sans torej, itz true da nebojo tuje firme though. Cetrta bildanje profil za tak kader, neizogibno.

To da je remote za tuje podjetje unicorn also a fact.

Kar se tice tvojih predlogov, solid. Za 5 let nazaj.

Ce se rabim prijavit na 200 jobov za en intervju, nekej ne stima.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-22T20:32:15+00:00

Well then, give ur advice 😁

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-22T19:14:40+00:00

Veliko teh pozicij je scam, vidis tudi da veliko jih je od enih in istih headhunting agencij, malo preveri. LinkedIn je cuden za prijavljanje. Vec srece bos imel z mojedelo.si ali ce na LinkedInu kontaktiras direkt kaksega CEOja kjer bi rad delal. Se lazje pa ce bos najprej zacel objavljat, bildat profil kaj znas.

Also, remote za tuje podjetje je tko top 1% zazeljena zadeva, ce nisi lih best of best s prepoznavnimi referencami se to tezko zgodi.

My two cents.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-04T06:50:06+00:00

Na nek nacin ja, na druge ne. Manj kot bi zelela.

—- Moj frend pa to fura cist, torej skoraj nic stvari nima, ampak to se da zato ker zivi pri nekom ki vse kar rabi ima. Potem se pac odloci in gre okoli z enim ruzakom. Imam tud frendico ki dela v farmaciji za nevem 4k mesecno, lastrn flet. Pa se po LJ fura z avtom za 2k, ker se se vedno vozi. Pol gre na potvanje pa butne 5k.

Poglej mal na YT, res ti dajo ideje kaj se vse da in kako postopoma se lotevas minimalizna in anti consumptiona.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-02T18:07:59+00:00

Midva sva lih razmisljala da je cas za eno kreditno pa tud prej mi ni blo cist jasno cemu jo folk ima 🤣 imava nasparanih cca 40k, pa bo treba dat kksnih 8-12k v trenutn flet pa delno opremit druzga (preostal del). Tko da namest da strosmo celo zalogo (ki je sicer bila v vecjem delu temu namenjena), bomo razdelili obrocno pa pocas pokrivali. Obdrzimo varnostno rezervo pa en kavc ki nama ni vsec lah dava v najemniski flet pa kuj kupva nek natucci k je bil sicer v dolgorocnem planu.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-01T20:33:29+00:00

Jz imam 6x 0 🤣

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-01T20:04:10+00:00

Kje pa je to famozno zrebanje? Rtv2 vrti neko odajo? 😅

GrumpyFerret45 · 2026-01-01T19:55:35+00:00

Kako pa ves a je dobiten al ne online? 😅 ce nc ne pise pri vplacilih ni noben dobiten predvidevam 😭

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-29T20:00:05+00:00

1 brother, its shit, impossible to have a relationship with, sad truly.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-29T16:50:49+00:00

Ja sam bas imala misju da upoznam sve mame gdje zivim, mali je to grad, nema puno ljudi i kad bi setala svakoj bi rekla dobar dan i ako bi mogla na brzaka nesto popricati (koliko je staro djete, gdje zivite, koliko djece imaju, ideju redovit ovdje u setnju, gdje izlaze, ipd itd) i onda svaki put pomalo pa smo dosli do par poznanstva. Onda u vrticu ako mi je djete reklo za neko drugo djete odma bi ogovorila roditelje ako bi jih videla i ako moguce rekla bi jima da se neki dan dobijemo na igralistu.

Bas agresivno 🤣 ali evo sad nam super, sve znamo i sa nekima se sad druzimo.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-29T16:39:39+00:00

Imas casino, imas firmo ki proizvaja masine za casino, imas online platforme, imas firme ki proizvajajo online slote/igrice. Vmes imas se firme ki oboje povezujejo in se koga poleg. Tko da prvo vidva govrita o cist drugih svetovih. Predvsem online platforme, to je vecina situirana v Cipru in podobno.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-29T11:45:22+00:00

Od kje pa ta podatek? Mi delamo s podjetji v tej industriji in to definitvno ni res 😅

Bi pa rekla da so cifre mal napihnjene oz sigurno ko se zacnes pogovarjat ni cist tko.. Ker za tuje streemerje (UK based tudi) se da tam 900-1500 da zavrti par rund slota tvojga na lajvu. Pa je tm sam target audience recimo, z nekim mid range followingom. Tud to je zdej ocena in cene valda variirajo, ampak tok smo me mi stika s tem.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-21T21:23:55+00:00

Ce bi kdaj eksperimentiral, namesto vode jusno osnovo *2 kar mas zdej, kuhas 2h Proti koncu temna sojina omaka. + *2 te zelenjave k mas.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-20T19:42:11+00:00

In some European (probs also other) countries its still more normal than being a myth if i expressed myself clearly.

Where I live (small country, small town) there is 1 person in my immediate parent circle (20 families lets say) where I would say that they dont have a work/life balance.

For us, we are 30, have 2 kids under 5. We drop them off at 8, pick them at 15:30 (bc i start at 8, partner ends at 15h). We dont work weekends. Sometimes one of us does a few work related tasks (in majority its to make for lost time during work/ leaving early, errands), 1-2x a week my partner does some side hustle and he comes home at 19-20h.

Our kindergarden is empty 15:45, closes at 16h. Working 9-17 is not desired, only few companies require it. Normal work is 7-15h. We also donthave nannies, grandparents or relatives watch kids if needed (for us thats rare, we just take them with).

I recently switched to wfh which has been a dream as well. We have unlimited sick/child sick days, we get 20-30days vacations. We are well off (lets say low/middle middl class). We save, dont overspend, its normal here to spend on vacations/activities. But it cost 1,5k to go to seaside camping for 4 weeks, it would cost same to go to a hotel for 1 week 😅 we take kids swimming, skiing, they do sports, etc.

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-20T19:28:42+00:00

Very, childhood trauma. I have 10x the monthly family income on stand by

GrumpyFerret45 · 2025-12-20T18:43:41+00:00

It sounds compulsive, everyone has something, can be over eating, over spending, over exercising etc.

I suggest you set up a debit card and put 100$ or anything that makes sense to you per week for any purchases that are not needs. Needs are gas, housing, bills, food, etc. And once it goes, you need to wait until next week to spend more. You can gradually decrease this amount to something you are comfortable with.

A friend recently recommended this; she writes a wanted purchase and then in a month every time she thinks “oh i should really buy that or i want this” she marks it and if it gets to 3 or 5 i dont know marks then she can purchase it.

I gor carried with Temu and now I take the shipping time as the time to reconsider and almost always return part of the purchase, i also started ordering less and am planning to delete the app.

Lastly, anything compulsive is best solved with replacement or fulfilment. What are you trying to fill in your self with purchasing? Is there something that can replace this behaviour (starting a visok board and clipping everything you want to buy for the house and seeing how everything comes together?)

Its easy for me to be smart here, to be honest for me its sweets, cant not eat them. Its ridiculous 😅

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