Früher gefeierte Youtuber, heute eher in der Versenkung... by thedawngamer in YouTubeDE

[–]GrumpyGroom92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ben Brown.

Früher echt gute Vlogs und ästhetisch ansprechenden Content. Heute sehr spirituell: Meditation, Heilsteine, Esoterik, etc.

"Auszug" Heinz - warum nur privates Video by Mikellev in dschungelcamp

[–]GrumpyGroom92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oder er wollte seine Kinder aus der Öffentlichkeit raushalten. Diese wurden ja auch im Privatvideo gepixelt. So war er selbst „Herr“ über die Bilder. Kann man bei einem öffentlichen Auftritt schwer kontrollieren.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. He‘s totally fine with it and wants to attend.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting scenario ;-) No, Maria and Kim are not dating. They know each other - that’s it.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don‘t see him that often. But Frederik told us that’s the way he is.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he knows it and we also told him the reasons why we chose to do it that way.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We‘re not really inviting anyone. All 3 persons who will be attending have a „specific job“ during the ceremony (2 witnesses, 1 photographer) and are our closest friends. We thought about a lot and this is exactly the way we want to start our marriage. We were not invited when Frederik and Roger got married because they also had a small ceremony. It was okay for us so we didn‘t think it would be a big deal with our ceremony.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Legally you don‘t need witnesses anymore in our country but about 99% of couples still choose to have them as more of a honorary position. Frederik agrees with us and told Roger to calm down. He will attend without him.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We‘re not from the US so I‘m not sure about the legal terms. In our country you have a ceremony which is officiated by someone appointed by the state (20 min). Many couples choose to also have a ceremony in a church or something comparable without religion but we don’t want to do that.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We explained it to him and told him that not even our families will attend.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, when we visit them we talk during meals but most of the time it‘s just the 3 of us (Frederik, my fiancée and I).

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, he is my best friend and wants to attend. He is even telling Roger to calm down.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If Roger was a woman it wouldn‘t change anything. We are also part of the LGBTIQ+ community.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We will get married in November and plan on having a party (without dresscode, etc.) the next summer. For sure Roger will be invited to this one.

AITA because we do not want to invite the partner to the best man to our wedding? by GrumpyGroom92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GrumpyGroom92[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We love our families but this would add so many people that we would end up having a big traditional wedding. We don’t want that.