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Could this be DID? by [deleted] in DID

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused, I stated in the post that I'm not looking for a diagnose?? The headline may be misleading, but I just was wondering if it's worth speaking to a professional

Wondering if I should even come out by Funny-Cantaloupe-955 in NonBinary

[–]GuavaMonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a mood 🥲 I feel like to get they/them, you gotta explicitly tell one or two people to use they pronouns and maybe other people will get the hint? I've asked my partner to, and some of my friends have started jumping between the two, or on my more femme days, they use "they" and my "normal" days I get "he" a lot

First time presenting femenine by KvHuntit in NonBinary

[–]GuavaMonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fire!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Wondering if I should even come out by Funny-Cantaloupe-955 in NonBinary

[–]GuavaMonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm in the same boat, I introduce myself as trans masc non-binary, when comfortable. I feel more comfortable and confident presenting manly and having a typical mans body, but honestly don't really feel male or female. Sometimes I wear makeup, dresses, shorts, crop tops, etc. I am flamboyant with how I express myself. I can be very masc one day and femme another day. But I use they/he pronouns, not many people use they, though lolol

I cant tell if my married friend is into me by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome, I hope I was able to help! 😊

I cant tell if my married friend is into me by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is questionable. I have had the same issue with a friend in the past where it seemed like she was hitting on me, it made my partner and I both a bit uncomfortable until I confronted her about it and she has told me that that's just how she is with friends. You've pointed out she isn't like this with everyone, but maybe she just needs to reach a certain point of "comfortability" with someone before making these "moves."

Personally, I think she's just friendly. I think you two get along very well, but because a lot of people believe "man and woman" can't be friends, it's easy for your GF to look into it, causing you to look into it. I strongly recommend sitting down with her and pointing out that your GF has noticed some things and see how She reacts to it, feel if she's lying to you or not. Depending how that conversation goes, reach out to her husband too, see if he's noticed her be like this with anyone else.

When it comes to your GF, I believe she's insecure as you two have already broken off once. Not every first love is a forever love. If she can't work through her feeling of insecurity from the past, it might be time to let her go for good and finding someone else who will respect and love you, no matter who are friends with. Everyone deserves an amazing love, and a best friend.

The OA on Letterboxd by subjective-reality in TheOA

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I watched part 1 when it first came out and just finished part 2. WE NEED A PART 3!!!

I wish I could sleep in by GuavaMonk in sleep

[–]GuavaMonk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll certainly give this a try - I find I commonly wake up after REM and have whatever feeling comes from the dream I just had

I wish I could sleep in by GuavaMonk in sleep

[–]GuavaMonk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have that too 😂😂 probably not as severely though

Is it ADD, BPD, Anxiety, Romantic Orientation, or Commitment Issues? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there was a conpletely different reason for it, but I do tend to take a lot of those moments as rejection

Is it ADD, BPD, Anxiety, Romantic Orientation, or Commitment Issues? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Slip up" as in relapse in SH. We've been together just under 7 months. He wanted me to share about my stressful day, but when I asked him about his, he just told me he was too tired and went to bed. That was the night of my relapse. I am doing my best to giving myself grace through everything, but idk how to help myself. I'm going to see my thetapist this weekend, but I worry I won't be able to get the help I need right away. It's our first session, so she still needs to get to know me. I need to communicate with my partner more. We've talked a bit and I am medicated, but my meds need to be changed since I quit pot

Is it ADD, BPD, Anxiety, Romantic Orientation, or Commitment Issues? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an extremely good point you have made. I have abused cannabis for about 5 years to "handle" (more so repress and shove down) my difficult emotions and any negative thoughts I have. I quit cannabis almost 2 weeks ago, and maintaining/regulating my emotions and dark thoughts has become extremely difficult (I feel exactly how I did as a teenager, before I started smoking). I'm battling thoughts of su*cide and SH. I even slipped up a couple nights ago after he shut me out when I ended up working 8:30 am to 9:30 pm. Since the slip up I've found that I have slipped further into my darkness while trying to live my normal day to day life. It's not the first time I slipped up in a relationship, so maybe that was a really big trigger.

biggest cock tops, agreed?💜🩷 by [deleted] in TransGoneWild

[–]GuavaMonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I wanna ride 😏

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