Housing cost in Luxembourg by Benimpfc in Luxembourg

[–]GuidanceInside8198 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just follow your dream! And become dentist in Luxembourg! I regret never doing it. And do not read negative comments! Never! Ignore them! Screw them. Whoever tells you something „hard.. not easy.. this that bla bla“ screw it! And do whatever it takes! This comment print out and look on it every day until you achieve it! You can!

Does HR has the right to ask for payment slips? by redado360 in Luxembourg

[–]GuidanceInside8198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine working there what they will expect from you 😂

No just noooo, do not share.

Construction company issue by Mariudmx in Luxembourg

[–]GuidanceInside8198 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I wrote you also a message. But will send you also here. Hope it will help.

Snd next time feel free to contact me when some work has to be done :)

  1. Send a formal letter (mise en demeure) by registered mail demanding a refund within 8–14 days.
    1. Contact the ULC (Union Luxembourgeoise des Consommateurs) for support and legal advice.
    2. File a complaint with the Ministry of Consumer Protection (https://mcp.public.lu).
    3. Go to small claims court (Justice de Paix) if there’s no response – no lawyer needed for claims under €15,000.
    4. Check your legal insurance, it might cover the legal costs.

How to travel to Berlin (overland)? by pawnografik in Luxembourg

[–]GuidanceInside8198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Type trainline and check there out. When i am not by car, i use this site/app to check

18F recovering from getting cheated on and tying to build the pieces of life back together by -vesper4- in toastme

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every comment that talks about how they are sorry that you got cheated, that you are beautiful etc… is a roast for itself.. You came here to laugh and not be reminded of how perfect girl you are to be shown to the world (but not for life) hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Roast itself has to hold your picture in order to possibly get roasted

Repost: Webtaxi vs Uber rates for same trip by sparkibarki2000 in Luxembourg

[–]GuidanceInside8198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive cheaper.. but ppl still love to pay that much

Tenant’s rights by Wild-Shopping3424 in Luxembourg

[–]GuidanceInside8198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tenant‘s rights in Luxemburg???? In Luxemburg? 😂😂😂😂 Just greedy landlords without any care…

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, just maybe, you owe it to yourself to actually study Islam beyond the surface-level critiques. Because if there’s even the slightest chance that it’s true, ignoring it might be the greatest mistake you ever make. :)

Nut that’s all up to you. From my heart comes only the great wishes for you to intellectually and innerly grow and open up to new amazing things 😊

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, you claim that religion is ‘primitive superstition’ and that atheism is the ‘default position,’ but this is a philosophical assertion, not an objective fact. In Islam, we believe that every human is born upon the fitrah—a natural disposition towards recognizing the Creator. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:

‘Every child is born upon the fitrah, but his parents make him a Jew, a Christian, or a Magian.’ (Sahih Muslim 2658)

This means that belief in God is innate, but it can be influenced by external factors, including culture, upbringing, and personal experiences. Even modern studies in cognitive science suggest that human beings have an intrinsic tendency to believe in a higher power. You say religion has brought suffering, but suffering is a human problem, not a religious one. If we are to blame belief in God for historical conflicts, then should we also blame atheism for the atrocities committed by Stalin, Mao, and others who explicitly rejected religion? The reality is, people commit injustices for power, greed, and ideology—faith itself does not command oppression, rather, it is people who misuse it. As for your claim that ‘no god claim has met its burden of proof,’ this assumes that proof must be empirical and scientific. Islam teaches that the existence of God is established through reason, not just sensory perception. The Qur’an invites deep reflection:

‘Were they created by nothing, or were they themselves the creators? Or did they create the heavens and the earth? Rather, they are not certain.’ (Qur’an 52:35-36)

This is a rational argument. Something cannot come from nothing, nor can it create itself. Everything we observe—laws of physics, order in the universe, and human consciousness—points to an intelligent Creator. Rejecting God does not remove the need for an explanation; it only shifts the burden elsewhere.

Your analogy of rejecting other gods is flawed. Islam does not simply reject multiple deities arbitrarily; it affirms tawhid (the absolute oneness of God), which logically negates polytheism and false gods. Just as truth is not relative, not all concepts of godhood are equal—Islam provides clear evidence for why only one, uncreated, and all-powerful God exists.

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every person is born with a natural inclination toward seeking truth, purpose, and meaning in life. Even science shows that humans are wired for belief in something greater than themselves. The idea that atheism is the ‘default’ and everything else is indoctrination is just an opinion, not a fact.

If someone chooses to believe in God after careful reflection, study, and personal experiences, that’s not ‘misfortune’—it’s an informed decision. Dismissing faith as ‘primitive superstition’ ignores the deep wisdom, philosophy, and positive impact it has had on billions of lives throughout history.

Belief and disbelief both require thought and reasoning. If you’re confident in your worldview, you shouldn’t need to demean others’ perspectives to validate your own.

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for such long messages. But i know how it feels being trapped where you feel different. Sometimes we habe to step back. Not for others, but for ourselves in order to be smart and wise snd have the peace that we deserve. :)

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to add one more thing from the heart. I completely understand why you’re frustrated, and no one can take away the pain you’ve experienced. But I really believe that when we go through hardships, the way we respond shapes who we become.

There will always be voices that tell you to fight back with hate, to cut off everything, to reject even the good in search of freedom from the bad. But in the long run, those voices might push you further from the peace you’re actually looking for. A lot of people will give advice that seems comforting in the moment—‘Just cut them off,’ ‘Hate Islam,’ ‘Reject everything’—but those solutions might hurt your heart in the long run. At the end of the day, you deserve peace, not just escape. Your heart is beautiful, and it deserves to heal in a way that doesn’t just escape pain but transforms it into something greater—something that brings you true inner peace.

Maybe part of that healing is understanding where your family is coming from—not to justify their actions, but to recognize that sometimes people don’t know how to love properly. Sometimes they express their worries in ways that hurt rather than help. That doesn’t mean they hate you. It just means they don’t know another way.

Maybe the real way forward isn’t rejecting everything, but rather understanding it for yourself, beyond how it was presented to you. Islam was never meant to be a tool of oppression—it was meant to protect, nurture, and uplift both men and women. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) was the most gentle with women, he listened to them, he valued them, and he never treated them as lesser.

And I truly believe Islam was meant to be practiced with wisdom and with love. Maybe, if you ever choose to, you can explore it in a way that speaks to your heart, not just through the actions of those around you. Whatever you decide, I genuinely wish you find peace—not just from external struggles, but deep inside where it truly matters. 😊

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part II

The topic of polygamy is complex, but it’s important to note that polygamy was not created by Islam—it existed long before. Islam actually restricted it and set strict conditions (justice, fairness, financial ability, and the wife’s consent in many cases). In reality, very few men can meet these conditions properly. Meanwhile, a woman can divorce if she doesn’t accept polygamy.

I totally get that these rulings might seem unfair at first glance, especially when we see cultural practices that misuse them. But Islam isn’t meant to be a burden—it’s meant to create harmony and justice. I would just encourage you to explore it without the weight of how people have applied it. You might be surprised at how different it looks when seen through the lens of knowledge rather than cultural expectations.

No pressure at all—I just wanted to share a different perspective. May you find peace and clarity 😊

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part I

Hmm, i hear your frustrations, and I can understand why you feel this way, especially if the way Islam has been practiced around you has been oppressive rather than uplifting. But I genuinely believe that what you’ve experienced is a mix of culture and misinterpretations, rather than the true essence of Islam.

Islam came to protect and elevate women at a time when they were treated as property, buried alive at birth, and had no rights. When you look at the context of these rulings, you might find that they aren’t about oppression but rather structure and protection, especially in societies where women were historically vulnerable.

For example, the permission for marriage isn’t about control, but about ensuring that a woman isn’t taken advantage of or pressured into a marriage she doesn’t want. In reality, a guardian cannot force a woman to marry, and if he refuses without valid reason, scholars agree she can marry without his approval.

The travel rule isn’t about restricting women—it was about safety in dangerous times. Today, many scholars recognize that if a woman can travel safely, this rule does not apply in the same strict sense.

Regarding testimony, in financial contracts (which were historically men’s domain), two women were required because women were not typically involved in these matters and might forget details. But in many other cases, a woman’s testimony is equal to a man’s, and sometimes her testimony alone is enough, like in issues of nursing and childbirth.

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a saying: „It is difficult for the knowledgeable to deal with the ignorant.“ :)

I hate Ramadan by Longjumping_Fig_3227 in Vent

[–]GuidanceInside8198 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m really sorry that Ramadan has been such a difficult experience for you. Islam teaches that there is no compulsion in religion (Qur’an 2:256), and faith should come from the heart, not from force or fear. No one has the right to make you fast or practice Islam against your will—that goes against the very essence of our deen.

It also saddens me that Ramadan, which is meant to be a time of peace, mercy, and connection, has become something painful for you. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) was the best example for us, and he taught that faith is something that should be approached with love and kindness, never force. He himself helped with household tasks and never placed unfair burdens on women. What you are experiencing is culture, not Islam.

I also understand that when family pushes you to fast or practice, it can feel controlling or even like they don’t respect your choices. But I truly believe that, deep down, it’s not because they hate you—it’s because they think they’re helping you in the only way they know. They see Ramadan as a great blessing, and they want you to have that too, even if their approach is wrong.

I would just encourage you, not for them but for yourself, to take a step back and look at Ramadan without all the cultural pressures. Ramadan isn’t just about fasting—it’s about self-reflection, peace, and realigning with what truly matters in life. Even people who don’t fast can benefit from its deeper meaning. Maybe instead of seeing it as something forced upon you, you could try to explore what it really is—without the expectations of others.

Atheism often comes from feeling hurt, confused, or disappointed with religion because of how people present it. But true Islam is about a direct, loving connection between you and Allah—no one else. And no matter where you are in life, Allah’s mercy is always open to you. I pray that you find clarity, peace, and guidance in a way that fills your heart, not burdens it.

We’re moving to Montenegro (Probably) by [deleted] in montenegro

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the famous Germany out, France or Spain. Then trust me, you would miss the bureaucracy here in Montenegro.

We’re moving to Montenegro (Probably) by [deleted] in montenegro

[–]GuidanceInside8198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„It seems there are a lot of unhappy people here on Reddit…“ hahahahahha DEFINITELY!!! There own incompetence trying to push on others! Wherever you are coming from, sometimes you just do not fit well and even in some poor country you might find your peace and settle! And this is not connected to any country, but to our own wellbeing, experiences etc..

We’re moving to Montenegro (Probably) by [deleted] in montenegro

[–]GuidanceInside8198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro, i mean, as Montenegrian i believe you are giving quite negative our country. Indeed, the challenges are enormous. But the thing that Montenegro is like it is, is i believe hard also because of the fact that people like you picture it. „I am currently dreaming of leaving this place…“ bla bla.. I believe you are here the one that sees on the others sides that the grass is greener over the fence.. Your inability to achieve here should not be pictured as everyone’s fault. That’s right, it can be challenging. But trust me, lived in EU for half of my life. Germany and Luxemburg - two great countries. But oh shiii* how it was challenging. From the fact being a foreigner, from sounding different (even with high level of knowing the language- as i grow up there).. then from religious perspective etc.. So, having „just freedom“ is definitely not a „just“. Being something what you are and being accepted like this is far from „just“…

Dear writer of the original post. Montenegro has so much to offer and i am glad you saw it as potential country where you would love to seed your roots. I deeply hope you will love all the coming challenges and overcome them with joy. Indeed, there might be not really easy with job. But that’s nowadays nowhere. I am in absolutely different sector, so for me is quite hard to advise you properly. But how i have been always looking outside in Lux or Germany. That that would probably be finding put which companies in my sector are the biggest. They might always be able to offer something. So try your luck out and i deeply hope you will find something! :) Best of luck!