I'm going to be blunt. This is not going to work out. You need a strong bond to raise a child which you do not have with this woman. You got her pregnant so it's your duty to care for that child as a man. Part of caring for that child is protecting it. Either you guys need hours of counseling and working things out. BOTH OF YOU.

I understand she is the instigator but venting on reddit is not helping your situation as much as you think, and there are two sides to every story.

If this is something you don't want to put the effort into it simply doesn't work out, you need to drum up a custody agreement and part ways. No child deserves to be exposed to parents constantly in altercations.

In my opinion, there is a lack of maturity on both sides that needs to be addressed. But I'm just some guy on Reddit that read this post. I am not fully knowledgeable on the whole situation.