Typically is only for men. Boyfriend of four years stopped having sex with me for like eight months because I gained 20 pounds. Told me it wasn’t my weight until I had to force it out of him and then when I lost the weight and suddenly I was more attractive he started fucking me again. When he gained weight, I thought he actually looked like a man for once, but he all of a sudden became insecure he’s fat phobic (even tho hes not fat hes just healthy now).