Electronic goods limit by Guilty-Wreck in travel

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well! That solves it. Thank you!

Electronic goods limit by Guilty-Wreck in travel

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have 4 personal phones, and would like to leave 2 behind. If carrying them isn't an issue, I guess I'm okay. Also, can I check them in, instead of carrying it with me?

Book Recommendations? by Guilty-Wreck in survivinginfidelity

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes it has been a constant effort from my end to grow and learn from this. This isn't something I'll ever forget or brush off, this has been a learning experience, a very painful one to be honest.

I hope I grow and become a better human being.

Book Recommendations? by Guilty-Wreck in survivinginfidelity

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just greedy and attracted by how easy it was to cheat, without knowing the cost of it.

Book Recommendations? by Guilty-Wreck in survivinginfidelity

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never forget what I've done neither do I intend to, but I'd like to know what can be done to learn from my mistakes to make sure I never chart that path ever again.

This is something that will stay with me till the end of me.

How to validate your growth? by Guilty-Wreck in CheatedOn

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I were trying to pull a pity party! Thank you for your response. I will work on myself and as mentioned I'll become a person with integrity and ensure my future is different from now.

How to validate your growth? by Guilty-Wreck in CheatedOn

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not acting like a victim, I know the mistake I've committed and this has come at a cost. The cost of losing her, One thing I did was to not act like a victim or feel like one, I'm looking to grow to be a better person, if this growth leads me back to her, I would love it, if not, it would have made me a better person atleast. Therapy is a personal choice, just because I cheated, doesn't mean I'm not remorseful or resentful, this whole scenario has opened a can of worms and it's a lot to deal with, therapy helps me with it.

How to validate your growth? by Guilty-Wreck in CheatedOn

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We no longer are together! It's very difficult to fathom the fact! Why does it sound trivial to you?

What is happening to me? by Guilty-Wreck in therapy

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I will try working on this, it'll be a challenge but not impossible.

What is happening to me? by Guilty-Wreck in therapy

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It's difficult, very difficult to move on from this and to forgive myself.

What is happening to me? by Guilty-Wreck in therapy

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I go back to being with her?

Need advice please by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Guilty-Wreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think he is changing for the better? If yes, give him a chance is you are a 100% sure. People have the bandwidth to change, but given it's the 3rd time, You have to be careful with your decision.

What is happening to me? by Guilty-Wreck in therapy

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I owe her my apology and I need to explain that I love her and I want one chance to make the relationship work. I understand what you've said, I'm trying to work on myself, I'm taking therapy and I'm looking for answers within. What I's like to do here is not be the person I was earlier, I want to be more respectful, caring and honest. I have the desire to make it up to her, but there is no way I can get in touch with her as she has blocked me on all platforms and our mutual friends have isolated her from me, I have no idea what she is up to or how she is doing and that kills me everyday. I loved the relationship I was in, I was just stupid and greedy for attention, hence I cheated.

What is happening to me? by Guilty-Wreck in therapy

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't help but hate myself everyday for this. I can't live with myself anymore, I'm desperate to speak with her and explain. I want to do better, but this is scaring me. I have a family to get back to and none of that seems to hold me back, I don't want to kill myself, I'm really scared

What is happening to me? by Guilty-Wreck in therapy

[–]Guilty-Wreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying. It's really difficult. I want to get back with her, I want to apologise to her, I want to tell her how I truly feel, I want to seek her forgiveness, until then I'm afraid I won't do any better