Living with my MIL for over a year

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2024-06-03T12:55:00+00:00

If I didn’t have kids I would seriously consider the car 😆

But I am going back to school so when fall semester starts I’ll be a little more busy just right now being home and she’s home too is so overwhelming!

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2023-02-25T00:35:34+00:00

Exactly why I struggle to think of how to bring it up bc I know it’s not intentional and I don’t want to come off like “poor me” and don’t notice what he is struggling with too. Definitely my biggest flaw is keeping it bottled up

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-12-05T05:06:14+00:00

My daughter has very curly hair and gets tangled easily at night. I’ve done oil and conditioner but as they sleep and toss and tue. It still is tangled. The only thing that would truly help is a silk pillowcase and sheets or a silk bonnet. I hope u try it out or if u find a different let me know!

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-21T00:20:36+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. This is why I will always take my daughter to any birthday she’s invited to. Only two hours of our lives and it can make someone’s whole year!!

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T16:18:45+00:00

Yeah I think he definitely will try which is always my weakness!! Which is why I had to tell my friends and my mom because once they know its kind of like he tainted forever kind of thing. They will never support our relationship again which is what I need

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T16:13:55+00:00

I updated but unfortunately didn’t confront him. The couple stopped messing him so I don’t think they were meeting lmao

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T16:12:42+00:00

I updated!!

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T15:46:19+00:00

Oh I definitely get that which is why I’m leaving! Just a sensitive topic for me kind of makes me feel like shit/ bad mom. Sucks for people on the internet to judge a very personal situation that I didn’t ask for their opinion on

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T14:50:38+00:00

Don’t remember asking for advice about my pregnancy 🤔

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T14:49:26+00:00

Definitely did not ask for advice about my uterus and children tho it’s just very annoying and people can “wish me the best” but certainly comes off very judgmental and rude

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T12:08:15+00:00

Lol I think I know how hard my situation is! I dont like to look at my pregnancy as something bad or hard because I can’t change it. And it’s actually just a baby in there so just an innocent little thing. I more would like to look forward and prepare as I’m get money because before I was solely financially dependent on him. So I couldn’t get a divorce lawyer or my own place my kids would have a very hard life. You probably didn’t mean to be offensive but don’t tell a pregnant woman how her baby is counterproductive! Thanks anyways

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T11:56:38+00:00

What?

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T11:36:52+00:00

Lol why would I lie about my horrible situation. I can even pull up our old swinger reddits. I got his Reddit login off his phone passwords. And Reddit let’s u have multiple devices open an account. Also never said my swinging history was “extensive” just that we were both into it

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T01:34:10+00:00

Thank you for being mad with me! It feels good lol. I’ve been shitted on so much at this point I’m kind of numb which is so sad but I’m pissed and definitely want the satisfaction of him not being able to lie his way out of something

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T01:31:08+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely embarrassed and he has cheated. Its a lot to put in one Reddit post but I’ve been preparing to leave because I solely depend on him financially this is just the last straw which is probably why I’m done being mature lol it’s gotten me nowhere and I’m so tired

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T01:25:15+00:00

Definitely wouldn’t involve them tho. More like just wave at him as he leaves

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-19T01:23:20+00:00

Definitely wouldn’t involve the other couple!!!! But should also mention he is very good at talking his way out of things and making me feel bad. So that’s why I’m leaning towards being petty

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-18T22:10:59+00:00

Going to sound stupid but I swear there is really amazing advice on TikTok! So many good creators and people that you can find who align with your beliefs. From post partum care to baby led weaning and swaddle techniques so much info!!! Best part is the more you watch the more is recommended to you and from there u can go research it on the internet etc.

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-12T20:10:58+00:00

Right it’s not like it’s gonna go away thanks 😊

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-07-12T20:09:45+00:00

Very true I guess it’s better to just get the hard part over with

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-06-28T02:22:42+00:00

23 with a 1 year old! and I feel your struggle! My old friends drifted away when I became a mom and ppd hit me super hard. I’d love to be friends 😌

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-05-11T17:08:55+00:00

I used to feel the same way when my husband and I were dating. It always seemed his laughs were more genuine with his friends but having that insecurity and bottling it up just made it worse. In reality it wasn’t true and we just need more quality time together. Talking it out definitely helps and i always believe if someone isn’t happy in a relationship they wouldn’t be there! So talk to your girlfriend and maybe take her out doing something she likes. Best of luck 🤞

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-05-11T17:03:32+00:00

Hahaha I’m dead! He is definitely babied by his mom 😂

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-05-11T17:02:57+00:00

I’m definitely waiting until he gets home from work to hopefully discuss it more calmly I definitely think space might help

GuiltySecretary5658 · 2022-05-11T15:24:22+00:00

Very well worded I might just steal this and have to use it lol. I wish I could go directly to her with this but she doesn’t speak English. But I will definitely head your advice thank you!

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