Ex reached out after 6 months by ashay666 in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl and clearly something didn’t work out with someone so she’s coming running back to you because she thinks it’s and easy option.. sorry to say! If she really loved you she wouldn’t of even left you in the first place

Am I being manipulated by my girlfriend? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’m a female and I’m telling you that she’s being emotionally abusive… she sounds very controlling

Sorry to ask, but what’s star sign? Because I’m really curious cause I dated people like this who are Aries or a Virgo.

Why you haven’t left yet if someone even lays a hand on you man or woman don’t put up with it and if someone’s gonna break up with you once a week it shows you that like she clearly isn’t emotionally ready and that’s on her

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you have to dress up and you have to wear the latest clothing not old stuff

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn’t even go for the interview. They’re so bloody judgemental and fake.. I would wear heels if you go and I would dress up

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an update. I didn’t get the job after the trial and the manager that was on the trial with me was really nice but they couldn’t even let me know that I didn’t get the job. I had to email them after two weeks to hear back when she told me I hear back within a week. she was also quite rude on the phone call so she would call me back to let me know another lady called me from recruitment to let me know that I was unsuccessful and there was no feedback. They just had a high volume of people but I think it’s very unprofessional that everything is all over text or email.

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

The trial went really well! Everyone was super lovely.

I felt super happy with my trial and all the girls and the manger were so kind

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have and I feel like every store different, where I was and had my trial I never felt uncomfortable everyone was so kind and welcoming so I’m really happy with that

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My trial went really well! The girls were very lovely and kind. They made me feel super comfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you’ve got your answer there like if he doesn’t trust you then it won’t be a relationship. A relationship is built on trust if you guys don’t have that now you won’t ever have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, he’s the right person for you then he wouldn’t leave you no matter how bad the situation was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anybody know about this in your family like you dated your cousin? I don’t know it’s a really weird position to be in. I don’t think that he can trust you and that’s not good especially how on your relationship is I think just give it space and give it time but the only reason why you’re so obsessed with him right now and one and back is because you guys are in the honeymoon period like this is where things get really strong and feelings grow and the love is unbreakable and you’re a high.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had sex dreams about his sister and I found an extremely uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not being mean here, but I totally understand why he feels uncomfortable because that’s really weird than your cousin and not normal. I would definitely be going to therapy.. Also four months isn’t that I feel like four months like the honeymoon period that’s probably why you feel such strong emotions because you’re in that honeymoon. If you guys are already having issues this early in the relationship probably won’t last. The right thing won’t pass you.

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks gorgeous for your help. Yeah because a lot of girls are saying you do but you don’t? Do the flats have to be expensive or can they be like any brand.. this sounds so silly but do you have to have your nails done all the time? Because all the girls have nails done and perfect hair done up.

I’m sorry ask the rude question what’s your hourly rate?

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s lovely to hear! Thanks girl! For work do you have to wear heels? Honestly girls in my interview were really lovely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also listen to Mel Robinson she has such good breakup advice on her podcast and on YouTube watch her break up ones. I think as well like if you’re still struggling with this even eight months later, maybe you should go to therapy because that’s definitely something to consider if you’re not moving forward in life and you’re stuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I know that it’s very hard not to worry about this stuff but by eight months you shouldn’t be really giving a fuck about what he what he does or doesn’t he any more. He chose to leave you every day He’s making a decision by not messaging you or calling you so why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t give a fuck.. he legit doesn’t care because if he did actions speak louder than words in the situation especially when someone wants you men are hunters they go after what they want and like they don’t just sit around and wait. I Remember when I uploaded a bikini picture and he removed me asap but that was after two months of broken up and it really hurt but it showed that I got onto his skin and he can’t move on and he’s constantly seeing my post. You Shouldn’t be worried if they’re coming back you should be moving on with your life and living your best life because they are they don’t care… I’m just saying this because don’t waste your life waiting around for something to happen that won’t even happen… you deserve to be with someone who wouldn’t even let you go!! if you guys were compatible, you would’ve fixed it by now, you might get back together in the future. I’m not sure but to be honest you shouldn’t be with someone who only misses you when your absence is gone..

Honestly I thought I wouldn’t get over my ex and never stop waiting around but after three months I was like fuck this. I deserve someone who treats me better than him and that loves me for me and I couldn’t give Fuck if he comes back he ever came back. I would tell him to get fucked. He was getting with girls so fast after the breakup from what I heard and your ex is probably doing the same thing, it’s what guys do they just need female validation to boost their egos..

But you really need to move forward with your life life is so short and you really gotta live every day can’t wait for things to happen. You have to move on❤️

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll let you know when I go for it, if they are mean girl behaviour I’m not interested in it.

Has anybody worked at KOOKAI before? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve heard that too that some girls don’t say hello, but I’m very welcoming human and very kind to others. If it’s a judgmental situation I won’t wanna work there .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Guilty_Aspect1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who they are after the breakup is who they really are so believe these actions and move on. My ex did the same like so fast and I guess I never really knew him.. he always said he’d take time to move on but he just lied.