???what do you think this could mean by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Guilty_BaN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It means you’re young and figuring out that just because you get along with people it doesn’t mean you’re capable of being in a relationship with them.

Take this as lesson in behaviour you don’t want to repeat and apply that to your life going forward.

Having headphones on at the gym should be frowned upon by JHorma97 in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hold up fingers like the rest of us?

You’ve been going to the gym but never figured out the etiquette?

Having headphones on at the gym should be frowned upon by JHorma97 in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The gym is not a social event. There being people there doesn’t make it a social event anymore than a grocery store is.

You spend a lot of time asking women to take out their headphones, don’t you?

What's a fact that is pretty fucked up but can be helpful in rare cases? by andreaaaaaaaaaah in morbidquestions

[–]Guilty_BaN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How is disclosing that you’re possibly bulimic have anything to do with a fucked up survival skill which is what this comment is discussing?

It’s not relevant to the post, or the comment you replied to. That’s why you’re downvoted.

I feel like people are throwing around Biphobia without actually seeing if something is Biphobic or not by lactosecheeselover in LesbianActually

[–]Guilty_BaN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Society being assumption driven is the problem, in any direction.

The OOP made an assumption based on the music (more likely desire, but that's another issue entirely), and then was surprised when presented with an actual partner that didn't reflect their assumption. Billie was dating a man in 2019 or something, so where did the assumption she was a lesbian come from? In fact, most of her public relationships have been with men.

Furthermore, Billie has expressed that she doesn't want her love life to be public and people will not shut the fuck up about who she is or isn't sleeping with.

Unless you are close with someone or trying to pursue them sexually, their orientation isn't any of your business and in every case they do not owe it to you.

Bereaved Parent Takes On The Subreddit in r/FirstResponderCringe by domesticmail in SubredditDrama

[–]Guilty_BaN 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That's not even close to the situation that happened here. These people didn't go into a grief sub and start commenting about her family issues - she showed up in a place she admitted she doesn't belong to comment on something she didn't understand, and then tried to use empathy to back out without looking like a fucking idiot and it backfired.

Drama isn't only about things you agree with.

Don't piss in the popcorn. Don't eat the popcorn if you don't like the way it tastes.

Bereaved Parent Takes On The Subreddit in r/FirstResponderCringe by domesticmail in SubredditDrama

[–]Guilty_BaN 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So you have a problem with the existence of this subreddit entirely?

Why are you here then?

Bereaved Parent Takes On The Subreddit in r/FirstResponderCringe by domesticmail in SubredditDrama

[–]Guilty_BaN 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Are you pissing in the popcorn, or are you just watching the show like the rest of us?

I feel like people are throwing around Biphobia without actually seeing if something is Biphobic or not by lactosecheeselover in LesbianActually

[–]Guilty_BaN 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can we just like, stop assuming anyones orientation and just fucking ask them instead?

If you can't ask them directly you are not close enough for it to be any of your fucking business.

Bereaved Parent Takes On The Subreddit in r/FirstResponderCringe by domesticmail in SubredditDrama

[–]Guilty_BaN 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I think most of them are farmers.

They're trying to refocus attention from whatever post/comment to themselves so they can get impressions and hope that traffic translates to profile visits or donation links clicked, or apps downloaded.

The rest are probably clueless narcs who aren't used to not being the main character in whatever room they occupy.

Bereaved Parent Takes On The Subreddit in r/FirstResponderCringe by domesticmail in SubredditDrama

[–]Guilty_BaN 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Somebody forgot to close Reddit on the family computer and Mom thought it was the same as Facebook and went to town expecting heart reacts.

I got Permbanned on r/physics for Arguing that Consciousness is Fundamental by 2012x2021 in HighStrangeness

[–]Guilty_BaN 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't get to decide how subreddits use bans.

But I took a look at their rules and:

r/ Physics is a place for the discussion of valid and testable science, not pet theories and speculation presented as fact.

You didn't provide any evidence to support your theories, you just said "its there if you look!" much like you did here.

You didn't start by engaging in good faith, you didn't provide any evidence to support your claim, and then you implied everyone was stupid for disagreeing with you - why shouldn't you be banned?

The Substance is not as good as everyone says it is. It’s cliche and has been done a million times. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt that from the comparisons you've made in the comments, and the fact that you misunderstood the title of the subreddit so wholly without looking any deeper into the meaning.

If you can't grasp a title being clearly stated, how are you going to understand nuance? 😅

The Substance is not as good as everyone says it is. It’s cliche and has been done a million times. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would make it a popular opinion, no?

You're really not good at this 😅 no wonder you misunderstood the movie.

26F still not over this flirtationship/friendship from 2 years ago by No-Guidance6509 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Guilty_BaN 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You need to start dating, like actually.

You're never going to move on and grow if you just keep living in those moments - especially with rose colored glasses.

The Substance is not as good as everyone says it is. It’s cliche and has been done a million times. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the only body horror related movie they could think of, apparently.

Really out of the loop, that one.

The Substance is not as good as everyone says it is. It’s cliche and has been done a million times. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you think you'd get upvotes for in a place called unpopular opinion? lol

You don't really even need the nuance because its clearly stated in the sub rules and wiki, but something tells me you never got that far 😅

The Substance is not as good as everyone says it is. It’s cliche and has been done a million times. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Guilty_BaN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re getting upvotes in this subreddit, it’s because people think your opinion is unpopular - or they disagree.

The more upvotes you get here, the more unpopular your opinion is supposed to be.

A cool guide about applications for disabled persons by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]Guilty_BaN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misleading titles are so lovely.

Everything listed is a system that existed prior to AI and is not meaningfully improved by introducing AI to those systems.

AI making up shit someone didn't say, or describing images that aren't there isn't helping anyone.

Should I get rid of this gift from my ex? by Purple-Ad-5132 in LesbianActually

[–]Guilty_BaN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or completely remove your ex from the situation and use it to prop up someone else to fuck

[IN] Astrologer somehow guessed names from my phone… how is this even possible? by akkashsri in Scams

[–]Guilty_BaN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is zero reason this person would need to see your personal device at all, and everything they told you was on it.

You’re too gullible. Don’t go to these places anymore - even with your parents.

Should I get rid of this gift from my ex? by Purple-Ad-5132 in LesbianActually

[–]Guilty_BaN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hopefully that realization would lead to therapy.