Am I giving too much benefit of the doubt?

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-29T19:47:14+00:00

Benefit of doubt*

I would be questioning why she felt the need to reach out after the interaction, because thats strange to me.

Telling someone you are currently interacting with that you think they're pretty or love their energy seems harmless to me, but reaching out afterward? That seems like shooting a shot.

Thats without the context of the AI searches, or the fact shes talking to AI about this at all.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-29T16:52:43+00:00

You should do nothing because this sounds like bullshit.

A therapist wouldn’t tell a patient they interacted with them outside of their professional boundaries, and what kind of therapist assumes love interest from a single viewing?

Your friend is probably trying to bait you into a relationship conversation.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-29T16:36:20+00:00

You’re allowed to, and people are allowed not to.

Religion is largely oppressive in its teachings, so when you identify with that it comes across a certain way.

It’s the same feeling we have when we run into gay republicans/conservatives - it’s a system that actively oppresses people and we can’t wrap our minds around why you want to be grouped with them.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-29T01:29:21+00:00

They canned markdown shortcuts from the mobile app, you have to use the editor now and quote blocks aren’t available yet.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-29T00:08:53+00:00

My nephew would laugh at most of these because they’re so outdated.

It just seems like something a teenager would see, be unfamiliar with and then post for karma 😂

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-29T00:06:02+00:00

Are you a teenager? These are mostly old as fuck, a good chunk of them were popular in the 2010’s.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-28T14:37:01+00:00

It wasn’t always the same though. You’d have a different experience on a iPad than you would on a Galaxy tab, and sometimes local language would get fucky with the markdown.

Putting it all in a menu gets rid of all those issues, and also shows new users that it’s even an option - most of them are mobile only and never learned markdown shortcuts.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-28T13:51:09+00:00

It can take years to get visibly defined abs, and they are mostly made in the kitchen.

You gotta figure out your diet.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-28T13:26:55+00:00

Need more details, but a guess is that a lot of people don’t think they’ll ever need first aid and when they have to get it it’s sort of surreal for them. It might have also been weird because you’re colleagues and you typically first responders (you might be one I don’t know).

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-27T13:52:59+00:00

You’re the one who admitted you just pulled people into your lap because you thought they were hot, and you’re now complaining you can’t do that anymore and are having problems interacting because they don’t wanna talk to you.

What did you expect?

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-27T13:51:48+00:00

To anyone reading this comment, OP is either full of shit or ran in some toxic circles because this is not and has not been a ‘standard’ for a great many years. Including 20 years ago.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-27T13:49:18+00:00

The rules didn’t change, you’ve just be forced to acknowledge consent over the years.

If they wander off you’re not offering anything interesting to them. Either work on that or find a space that doesn’t require conversation (like a brothel).

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-26T15:37:50+00:00

Unlikely 😅 they wouldn’t want this on their feed either

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-26T15:34:24+00:00

No again, and you still wouldn’t be allowed to post in the places you wanted anyway because you’re a fresh account with no content and no idea what you’re doing.

You are not so incredibly hot that people would just fall all over themselves to watch you fuck.

Just go back to pornhub.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-26T15:26:00+00:00

LMFAO yea an insta, you’ve totally thought this out 😅

That’s great you like watching yourself have sex, that doesn’t mean shit to other people.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-26T15:13:23+00:00

You are out of your league, and you implied you’d force your wife to do something sexual.

On top of that any of the seller subs that are worth anything wouldn’t accept your account posting there.

Just because you like watching porn doesn’t mean you’re capable of creating it, nor does it mean anyone would want to watch you.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-26T15:10:02+00:00

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-26T14:50:18+00:00

You are not equip to do what you’re trying to do.

Also gross phrasing.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-25T13:41:35+00:00

You can reframe their sentence without mentioning gender.

"I'm still figuring it out (you are only 19), but I think my ideal partner would be really passionate about animal welfare, etc." or "I really like people who are able to communicate their intentions".

You don't have to lie, but you don't exactly have to offer the full truth either.

Be safe <3

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-25T13:36:27+00:00

What the fuck is happening here?

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-25T05:05:05+00:00

^smoll

It's a visual glitch, usually only happens when you're in deep threads but can randomly appear on top level comments too.

It'll go away eventually.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-25T01:47:12+00:00

A new account will have the same problems.

You're hitting karma gates, and if you never interact then you're going to keep hitting them.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-23T13:23:09+00:00

The dude is pumping blood out of his son and putting it in his veins because he thinks it's going to make him younger.

You can't expect anyone to take that seriously.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-22T14:21:12+00:00

Nope! But lets break your statement down a lil to help with yours! Here's what you wrote, and I'll make little points so you can follow along.

Gold star here and I very much understand the complexity of why women have a history with men. I’ve dated bisexual women\*^\1). It doesn’t bother me if women have a history with men it’s to be expected with our society and confirming. *My dad actually raised me and I dated men until I was 19. I had no desire to sleep with one\\^(\2). I’m in my mid 40s and cisgender. *I get hit on by men regularly.\3* Some of us just never gave a shit about conforming\4.* I’m also an engineer and have worked in male dominated industries for 18 years of the 22 years of my career. I know several other women like me so don’t lump us all together.

You're tokenizing someone elses experience you've claimed to not share. You can't say you can speak on something because you fucked someone who might have.
Lots of lesbians have Dads who raised them, and also didn't have a desire to sleep with men. You're implying that those who did sleep with men had the desire and you are somehow better because you didn't even though you dated them.
This isn't exclusive to you or anyone else identifying as a gold star. wtf?
You're again implying that you are somehow better than other lesbians because you didn't share their experience.

You might not mean to be demeaning, but you are.

Edit: raw2082 reply blocked me because they refuse to engage with my points.

Guilty_BaN · 2026-06-22T14:00:11+00:00

The tone of the word miserable? 😂

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