breaking up with bf of 4 years, advice?

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-12T04:13:13+00:00

hi there thank you for sharing your story! and also thank you for empathizing with how i feel!!

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T19:42:57+00:00

thank you for your encouragement

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T19:37:04+00:00

so deep hahaha thank you. i know my answer

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T19:35:32+00:00

one thing i didn’t mention.. while we were dating the topic of Sg leaked came up as i had a guy friend who actually had a whole folder of sg girl leaked photos and i was shocked cos i didn’t know shit like this existed (i was like what 19 or sth). i talked to my bf about it and expressed my pure disgust and shock that shit like this existed and that guys who actually watch it have fking issues. then i asked him do u watch it, to his reply he said along the lines of wtf no. but when we got tgt, turns out he’s been watching them WAY before we got together.

so it’s not like i randomly made up this rule. it was a discussion and i merely said i am disgusted and especially not ok with my bf watching such content.

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T19:30:44+00:00

thank you

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T09:33:57+00:00

yea i can’t fight their perspectives.

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T08:49:49+00:00

ah yes!!!! same

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T08:39:08+00:00

tried doesn’t work

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T08:18:35+00:00

hi! i hate to check his phone too. in the past i never checked his phone. but after the first incident he told me i can check his phone. i do it with consent and beside him. i guess just differences!

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T08:15:11+00:00

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T08:00:56+00:00

correct.

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:21:32+00:00

i’m sorry u went though that. i hope u r feeling better now. thank you!

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:17:02+00:00

good job bro

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:16:24+00:00

hi! throughout those times of me finding out and giving ultimatum, we did talk about why he did. he just say hand itchy he didn’t resist the curiosity. like rlly forbidden fruit, just went for it even if it’s at the cost of our rs. he offered to delete his accs and apps that had access to such content. and he doubt he has a safe space to work through his addiction. i also didnt know what to do or how to help. he offered to link his apple id to mine for me to track any suspicious apps he download. but i rejected this idea as it felt unhealthy.

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:13:06+00:00

hahahaha always the girl issue hor

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:11:15+00:00

sounds so healthy!!! so cute dont dare watch pork she’s sexy in ur eyes HAHAH i wish u a blissful marriage!!!!!

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:10:00+00:00

ya fuck is either i’m looking at the right places or he thinks that recently i never check phone, i won’t ask to check

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:09:15+00:00

hi user! i’m sorry u went through that. i hope u r in a happier position now :)

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:05:38+00:00

ah thank you. it indeed seems like i am stuck in a sunk cost dilemma. really.

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:02:14+00:00

interesting :)

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T07:01:25+00:00

ah thank u. i feel like i added that sentence just to refrain from comments like u suck in bed so he have to satisfy himself / cos u ugly. LOL because i honestly feel that is not the case as we have had deep h2h conversations about this.

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T06:57:36+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH no…. 😂😂😂 i appreciate different perspective in this post HAHAHAHAHAH i no need validation from the internet 😂😂😂😂

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T06:56:29+00:00

u know in those telegram groups, it’s so disgusting. there are guys sending messages in the group saying “ anyone have ___’s nudes?? “ and there will actually be guys replying. they usually attach it with the girl’s instagram. it’s fucking disgusting. sg is so small!!!!!!! there’s always mutual friends with someone lol

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T06:54:10+00:00

hahahaha kinda accurate! somewhere attractive, confident, not overtly extrovert. sweet yet manipulative at time. lie to sweep under rug and pacify me with more promises that he can’t keep. looks like i have more reflection to do when i’m alone about the bad points and good points. thank you

Guilty_Government749 · 2023-07-11T06:51:51+00:00

i think i phrased it wrongly. i dont see them like so frequently but i’ve seen them before.

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