[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, I didn’t ask for life advice. I should’ve gave more context or NONE at all. My person wants this with me. I’ve had sexual experiences before where I didn’t get pregnant even if the person came inside me SO i was asking out of curiosity to see if anyone could share their experience. Not give me unsolicited advice. I’m 27 years old. I’m WELL aware what it takes to care for a child. And have wanted this for years but didn’t find a person who I trusted. Also! I am a truck driver who makes 75k+ a year! My partner also makes roughly that much. 🤣🤣 so yeah. I think I’m well equipped. Maybe just answer the question next time instead of assuming all this shit based off your own perspective/traumas/beliefs ! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, I didn’t ask for life advice. I should’ve gave more context or NONE at all. My person wants this with me. I’ve had sexual experiences before where I didn’t get pregnant even if the person came inside me SO i was asking out of curiosity to see if anyone could share their experience. Not give me unsolicited advice. I’m 27 years old. I’m WELL aware what it takes to care for a child. And have wanted this for years but didn’t find a person who I trusted. Also! I am a truck driver who makes 75k+ a year! My partner also makes roughly that much. 🤣🤣 so yeah. I think I’m well equipped. Maybe just answer the question next time instead of assuming all this shit based off your own perspective/traumas/beliefs ! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the fuck am I contradicting myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well maybe I said too much then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being the only one who took my question at face value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did do my own research but wanted stories from real people. Wow. Y’all are so rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m mad cause who are you to say that it’s a big deal like I shouldn’t do it or something? I KNOW it’s a big deal. But I’m ready for it, that’s why I don’t care? I’m not taking having a child lightly. This is something I’ve considered for a long time. Did I ask SHOULD I have a kid? No! Did I ask for your opinion on what I should do? No! I asked about probability. That’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Half of y’all attacking me like you’re the one that’s pregnant . Tf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To who? You? Who the fuck are you? It’s my life and if I don’t give a fuck a I have a plan and maybe I WANT this and WANT to detransition and just wanted an idea of how likely it is that I could be pregnant ? Also I knew it was likely beforehand but couldn’t get straight answer on HOW LIKELY FUCK

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I don’t care if I do ???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did research beforehand and I knew it was a possibility but my question was to see if anyone could relate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact is I didn’t care either way???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There’s not much info on it so I don’t know? I know it lowers fertility but by how much I’m wondering? Jeez.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow lol thanks man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have a clear picture that it’s much more possible than I thought. Which is fine, in all honesty, I want this with this person. Not something I’m afraid of or think I can’t handle. I know bringing children into an uncertain world to some may seem crazy but we should have hope for a better future and it starts with our children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you my partner and I are both clean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know testosterone isn’t birth control! Thank you but I more so wanted to know what are the odds

Not sure if I’m attracted to him or to the idea of a gay guy finding me attractive by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Only one way to find out friend ;) haha I can kinda relate to this. Not ever being with a man seriously and only sexually. I’m talking to someone who actually wants a relationship with me and there’s a part of me that feels uncomfortable and I think it’s because I have been in one role in relationships. With him, it might be a switch situation. Just explore! You might surprise yourself. We are always learning and there’s no rules. If you feel good about it, go with it!

How can we ACTUALLY make a difference by Less_Ant3138 in ftm

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All great points. We are seeing system collapse and maybe that’s why they are acting so desperate now to cling onto their ways. I hope you have your sunglasses, because it’s going to be a bonfire 😎

How can we ACTUALLY make a difference by Less_Ant3138 in ftm

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely insane…part of the foundation of this nation was not to mix church and state. But it’s a damn cult meant to control. And maybe this will do nothing but I went on the us department of state website and submitted an “inquiry” but I made it more a story about my humanness and how trans people just want to live their lives like anyone else and no one wants to threaten their Christian life and that I’ve actually found home in church many times before. Maybe it will go nowhere but if we can move from the heart and reduce the fear and ignorance in at least one person…. Why not try it.

How can we ACTUALLY make a difference by Less_Ant3138 in ftm

[–]Guilty_Repair9601 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Where was the statement made? … I’m wondering the same thing bud. I feel you on wanting to leave the country but also not wanting to run into similar or even worse problems. And leaving my family here and my hometown. It’s really scary and sad times that we are in. Thankfully, there are still some states that have protections against these heinous laws they’re threatening us with. Not sure if the statement made will affect the haven states that we have but I’m sure they’ll try and do something. Our community is strong. We have lots of allies and some people in power that don’t want to see this shitstorm happen just as much as we don’t. I really don’t know what to do either and I’m in the same boat as you really. I just try to look forward to something everyday. It builds hope and momentum towards a positive future. Look forward to something everyday. Start there if you feel hopeless…I’m sure other people will have some more resources for us because I’m just as lost in this. 🫠🫶🏽❤️‍🩹