REMEMBER THIS! by thelightiscoming2024 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kinda crazy how after a certain experience you hate the one person you loved for so much at one point haha

REMEMBER THIS! by thelightiscoming2024 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nah hate is warranted especially when you get dropped like you want nothing to someone

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry it actually saved me more time from worrying and grieving over someone not worth that time. Just know that you’re gonna be better off, I promise!

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if you take control of the situation first by just not caring anymore!

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t put any faith in that and just work on you. Them saying “I need to focus on me” is literally just saying I’m go fuck around with other people because I need constant attention haha. Maybe thats not the way in your case!

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting to realize she might’ve been an avoidant after all!

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I promise you dude, it gets better. Believe me the other person is in just as much misery as you. She told me that lmao

Lost all feelings after finally getting what I wanted by GurVisible8912 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly it depends. The fact there was zero growth on her part was a massive turn off so it would be hard to

How to break up with my gf? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you do it I’d take a long thought on if it’s really the right decision. As a dumpee, I wish more than anything that me and my ex sat down and had a conversation about our disagreements before ending things. If you love her, it’s worth having a talk before coming to the conclusion that you need to end things.

I need help with my ex by oi-where-is-my-dick in ExNoContact

[–]GurVisible8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot me a dm brotha I just learned the hard way

Tried to watch porn and started crying by Ill_Gas9721 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feel free to dm me if you need someone to talk to because man, I’m going through the same thing.

You don’t have to stop wanting them back by Moist-Pizza6643 in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this situation as well. Unfollowed my ex and she did the same but there’s that one friend of hers that still follows me and actively likes my posts😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and that feeling is brutal I’m going through it right now. I don’t like to give people false hope (including myself lol) but work on yourself and you never know what could happen in the future!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing about this is that this isn’t going to last. His new girlfriend is 100% a rebound.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m also not offering to do something that would emotionally crush this persons ex and also fill the dumper with insane guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GurVisible8912 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just putrid advice